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What do you find yourself avoiding more as you get older?

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randomgoogleimages Thu 23-Apr-26 18:14:18

People

undines Fri 24-Apr-26 17:24:24

Showing my arms - ugh!
Socialising for the sake of it, having to talk to people with whom I have nothing in common
Worrying so much about my figure - just gimme the chocolate!

Mojack26 Fri 24-Apr-26 18:01:46

Same as you and I used to be such an extrovert! Not anymore...Much prefer dogs to people.

Frenchgalinspain Fri 24-Apr-26 18:10:15

Negative people, phishers, bullies, smokers and bossy people.

Frenchgalinspain Fri 24-Apr-26 18:12:02

Mojack26

Same as you and I used to be such an extrovert! Not anymore...Much prefer dogs to people.

I adore Eduardo, our Fawn French bulldog with a black mask. He is going to be three years old in December.

Mauriherb Fri 24-Apr-26 18:14:38

Driving at night for me,

Rocketstop2 Fri 24-Apr-26 18:41:21

ViceVersa

randomgoogleimages

People

Same!

Same here too ! excepting family and friends !

Rocketstop2 Fri 24-Apr-26 18:41:40

Oh and Doctors !!!

Jockytaff Fri 24-Apr-26 19:31:08

Random Google images - me too. Perhaps we should form a society, but then again....!

FranP Fri 24-Apr-26 20:29:22

Travelling during peak times. Shopping on Saturday.

narrowboatnan Fri 24-Apr-26 20:34:15

Going out after seven o’clock. Steep downhill slopes. Company in the evenings. Large meals. Cleaning and polishing the outside of my boat (it needs re-painting, it looks dreadful 😱). Going shopping - something I used to love and could ‘shop ‘til I dropped’ but now I’ve had enough after half an hour 😆. Goodness, that’s quite a list!

Susieq62 Fri 24-Apr-26 20:37:22

Crowds
People
Housework

harrysgran Fri 24-Apr-26 20:38:58

Night driving
Driving long distance
Cooking
Socialing in darker evenings

Deedaa Fri 24-Apr-26 20:52:23

Escalators going down. I don't know if it's my age or my glasses, but I can't cope with stepping on to those moving steps. I'm fine going up.
Also driving at night. I just get blinded by the headlights.

M0nica Fri 24-Apr-26 21:22:35

I love people and I am busy starting to build new social networks in the town we moved to last year. It is 70 miles from our previous home, so no carry-over.

Allira Fri 24-Apr-26 22:10:56

Trolls.

travelsafar Fri 24-Apr-26 22:43:14

Having to attend events i don't really want to.
People apart from family and close friends
Driving at night or even in the day....far to much traffic that's always in a hurry.
Going out at night .....I like my evenings at home.
Entertaining ....far too much hassle
Christmas.....too false
The news....depressing
I'll stop now but there is more!!! 😳😳

Paulamel Sat 25-Apr-26 00:03:33

People. Simples...

watermeadow Sat 25-Apr-26 05:10:41

The news.
I look at the headlines on my iPad but don’t listen to the never-ending news reports on Radio 4. It’s like school history lessons - wars and politics, wars and politics.
I haven’t many years left and am not wasting time on anything nasty if I can avoid it.

Lovetopaint037 Sat 25-Apr-26 05:15:03

Anywhere where there are no toilets.
Having to stay away from home.
Funeral adverts.
People who tell me they are going to vote Reform.

Bellasnana Sat 25-Apr-26 05:30:48

Confrontation, both in person and with strangers on the internet.

InnocentBystander Sat 25-Apr-26 05:37:25

Worrying about things outside my control, feeling obliged to have an opinion on complex matters when full facts are unknown and information sources are all biased. I tend to see both sides of an argument and think that no one single answer suits the problem.
Oh, and idiots!

GANNET Sat 25-Apr-26 06:52:26

I am intolerant of mean people these days the ones who are just miserly but have money. I spend mine and enjoy doing lots of different activities. I don’t get the retirees who won’t have a coffee out, or treat themselves. HMRC and their offspring will enjoy spending it after they have gone, more years behind us than in front of us. At 64 I know that if I am still here in my 80s I won’t won’t/ be able to do as much as I do now.

Lilyflower Sat 25-Apr-26 17:57:29

Going out at night.
Late nights..
Holidays.
Parties.

Estrellita Sat 25-Apr-26 20:10:28

Parties although I haven't been to one for years. Flying. Driving. Don't do either any more.

SueEH Sun 26-Apr-26 18:30:48

People who don’t bring any joy to a situation.
Cold weather - give me 80° every day
Equipment at the gym - I do a lot of classes but find the rest pretty boring (unless I’m reading my kindle on a treadmill).
Not an avoidance really but my tolerance levels have plummeted and instead of being a people pleaser I’m very happy to show some belligerence now and then 😁