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Rocketstop2 Sat 02-May-26 19:02:42

I made myself laugh today as I saw something I liked in a leaflet for what I used to term 'An old lady shop' ! It kind of put me off, although I have sent for the clothing to try.
It got me thinking, even though we are older now, are there still shops you feel you might be too young to buy from? I aim this at all ages too, as we are all only a certain age in our own heads.
I can remember as a young girl wearing Marks and Spencer stuff that My Mum had bought and vowing 'When I'm grown up I shall NEVER shop at Marks and Spencer.' (I did !!)
So, anyone else??

AmberGran Sun 03-May-26 14:26:39

A lot of this angst about ‘old lady stuff’ is just in the head.

Absolutely agree. I was buying Damart thermals over 30 years ago, about the only place you could get them then, and a necessity for commuting to work on the train over Winter.

Funnily enough I've always thought of Joseph Siebel as an 'old lady shop' - but their shoes are no different to anywhere else, just more expensive. I have two pairs of Hotter shoes, they are comfortable enough for long walks on days out, nice colours, light to wear and have lasted for over 5 years so far. My go-to when trainers won't do.

JaneJudge Sun 03-May-26 14:46:22

since I've discovered vinted, I hardly buy anything new anymore and I love an elasticated waist

Magenta8 Sun 03-May-26 14:50:26

Jaxjacky

Are there shops for ‘old men’ too?

Yes Jolliman and the afore mentioned Chums. Peter Christian and Bruar for old men with a good pension. I am sure there are others.

This is only my light hearted observation please don't take it too seriously.

harrysgran Sun 03-May-26 15:33:13

I wanted to look in bon marche the other day laughing my daughter said oh I hope no one saw me come in she's in her. 40s 20 minutes later she had bought a beautiful white embroidered jacket she had to eat her words I purchased a top and trousers from their Dash range

M0nica Sun 03-May-26 16:30:46

Magenta8

Jaxjacky

Are there shops for ‘old men’ too?

Yes Jolliman and the afore mentioned Chums. Peter Christian and Bruar for old men with a good pension. I am sure there are others.

This is only my light hearted observation please don't take it too seriously.

On the contraary, I am not disagreeing. I am in total agreement - and there is Cotton Traders for old ladies and old gentlement

winterwhite Sun 03-May-26 17:10:59

A very ageist thread!

petra Sun 03-May-26 17:20:36

winterwhite

A very ageist thread!

Posting on a site called Gransnet it was bound to happen 😂

kittylester Sun 03-May-26 17:25:13

winterwhite

A very ageist thread!

A slightly tongue in cheek thread.

Whitewavemark2 Sun 03-May-26 17:40:23

My ambition is to look as stylish as some Italian women you see.

I usually look like a bundle of hay tied in the middle.

Magenta8 Sun 03-May-26 17:50:56

winterwhite

A very ageist thread!

Given the fact that the OP and many more of us are getting on a bit, I don't think the thread is ageist, just gently humorous and observational.

Ageist is when you discriminate against people because of their age. I don't think that is evidenced anywhere on this thread so far.

Rocketstop2 Sun 03-May-26 18:21:18

winterwhite

A very ageist thread!

If you re read my post you will see that I aim my question at all ages, meaning that even if we live to 130 we may still consider a shop 'Too old for us' Nothing ageist intended.

Maggiemaybe Sun 03-May-26 18:21:32

I saw an 'old lady' yesterday who clearly shops in Gudrun Sjoden. She had a calf length loose cotton top over baggy trousers. She looked chic and cool, in every sense of the word.

I’ve a bit of a Gudrun (sale) habit myself, but I’ve never been tempted by the baggy trousers. DH looks at me askance sometimes as it is when I don one of her (admittedly rather unusual) dresses or tops. I once saw them described as clothes for retired art teachers. Seems about right, though my DD2 is the artist in the family, definitely not me. smile

Norah Sun 03-May-26 18:52:42

Jaxjacky

Are there shops for ‘old men’ too?

I'm not aware 'old man' clothing is different to 'young man' clothing. There are shops with 'men's clothing' in the town nearest to us.

Oreo Sun 03-May-26 19:18:43

Whitewavemark2

My ambition is to look as stylish as some Italian women you see.

I usually look like a bundle of hay tied in the middle.

Tbf A lot of older Italian women look the same.

JamesandJon33 Sun 03-May-26 19:20:58

I had a Gudrun dress on yesterday.

Oreo Sun 03-May-26 19:22:33

Norah

Jaxjacky

Are there shops for ‘old men’ too?

I'm not aware 'old man' clothing is different to 'young man' clothing. There are shops with 'men's clothing' in the town nearest to us.

Well they do differ Norah
Young men like to wear suits two sizes too small, very tight jeans and Tees with sarcastic comments on them, also tight.
The average older men I see like checked shirts and chinos with a jumper or fleece.

Esmay Sun 03-May-26 20:51:58

Just recently Oxfam have made an advertisement with an Angela Davies lookalike.

Now the lady featured in the ad has turned into the stereotyped old lady complete with an armchair with crocheted antimaccassars.

Excuse me whilst I don my shawl ,get my ear trumpet in order to hear the wireless or watch my television set with my eye glass .

TheSunRisesInTheEast Sun 03-May-26 20:56:06

We used to have Greenwoods in town, that was an "old man's" clothing shop. I used to buy clothes from there for my dad, that and BHS. There's only M & S now, but it's so expensive.

Wyllow3 Sun 03-May-26 21:04:48

I give you "Chums" for men. Affordable. I give you a good example page.

www.chums.co.uk/menswear/trousers/elasticated-waistbands

Wyllow3 Sun 03-May-26 21:06:32

Why no specific shops except for high end mens stuff? Maybe many wives or children buy their clothes for them? sp for example Chums is for men and women and we had heard of it for women, but they have a large mens section.

Jaxjacky Sun 03-May-26 21:27:50

Thank you all those who replied. As MrJ is a mere youngster, early 60’s, I think he’ll continue as he is for now, but now I know.

MissAdventure Sun 03-May-26 21:37:39

So, men must have "high ends" to shop in most of these places?

M0nica Sun 03-May-26 21:40:36

winterwhite

A very ageist thread!

No it isn't. It is a group of older people, having a joking conversation about the kind of clothes shops which stocks the kind of clothes we are assumed to wear.

When I was a child I was told that priests knew all the best jokes about priests, and enjoyed them and shared them. This is what we are doing.

A light-hearted thread of a kind we are much in need of.

Allira Sun 03-May-26 21:51:07

Wyllow3

I give you "Chums" for men. Affordable. I give you a good example page.

www.chums.co.uk/menswear/trousers/elasticated-waistbands

DH has a couple of pairs of 'fleece leisure trousers for lounging around in. I bought them for him for comfort after an operation.

He wouldn"t go to the shops in them
(Not with me, anyway).

Although they are no different from those I see much younger men wearing,

Allira Sun 03-May-26 21:52:13

Oreo

Norah

Jaxjacky

Are there shops for ‘old men’ too?

I'm not aware 'old man' clothing is different to 'young man' clothing. There are shops with 'men's clothing' in the town nearest to us.

Well they do differ Norah
Young men like to wear suits two sizes too small, very tight jeans and Tees with sarcastic comments on them, also tight.
The average older men I see like checked shirts and chinos with a jumper or fleece.

And who looks smarter and more comfortable too?