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MissAdventure Thu 14-May-26 16:31:34

Anyone?
We had a nice little thread going, no rushing, just sharing, discussing, and encouraging each other. .
I've fallen out the loop, but still have a long way to go.

MissAdventure Mon 18-May-26 18:59:31

Nothing today.
I'm only just out of bed.
I'll try and do one thing, at least.

Doodledog Mon 18-May-26 13:57:09

I have filled a bin bag (well, overfilled it, so will decant into two bags) of clothes for charity. I will see if Anglo will collect it, and if not, take it to the Red Cross shop.

I have further to go, but it's a start. I find that unless there is a fix deadline (eg builders arriving) I am better with achievable goals, so am concentrating on getting the room my son will be using ready by the weekend. I don't want to have lots of bags of 'stuff' waiting to go out when he's here either, so slow and steady it is. When I get that done, next step will be the towel cupboard, which needs a thorough sort out. My cleaner loves doing things like that, (and is a lot better at it than I am) so I'll ask her to give it a go in a couple of weeks when my guests have gone and we can have a run at it. I will have to resit the temptation to clutter up the spare room again with things I take out of the cupboard🙄

HelterSkelter1 Mon 18-May-26 12:40:45

I,would love a half dozen same sized cardboard shoe boxes to pack smaller things into so that they will stack away into a now empty cupboard. They can be labelled and disposed of in the future easily...but not ready yet to let them go.

HelterSkelter1 Mon 18-May-26 12:38:40

I dropped books culled at the weekend into the hospice charity book shop and 2 oval plates and 4 glass sundae dishes off at the same charity clothes and household shop.
Must keep the momentum going especially as its gone grey and rain is threatening. Ideal decluttering weather especially as I cant see the dust as no sunshine.

MayBee70 Mon 18-May-26 10:08:53

MissAdventure

There are boxes you can get, shich are designed to sit on stairs.

Mind you, I'd probaby fall over one. Plus, it could end up adding to the clutter.

I’ve got those small square IKEA baskets on the stairs; one is already full of my cholesterol tablets. They’re not too dangerous in that they’re next to the handrail. One of them is full of cuddly toys that were in the living room.

Calendargirl Mon 18-May-26 08:00:42

I’m sending two unused diet book recipes to my friend who is with Slimming World. Thought there might be the odd fresh idea.

Told her to pass them on if no use.

That’s 2 books down!

MissAdventure Mon 18-May-26 00:25:09

There are boxes you can get, shich are designed to sit on stairs.

Mind you, I'd probaby fall over one. Plus, it could end up adding to the clutter.

MayBee70 Mon 18-May-26 00:19:22

I’ve moved all of my pills vitamins and potions from out of the kitchen because they shouldn’t really be there and I needed the space to rearrange my food so I can see where everything is. But it’s now living on the stairs as there’s no room in the medicine cabinet. It might end up living there for quite a while.

MissAdventure Mon 18-May-26 00:12:30

I cleared enough space in Brian. (Cupboard B) sp that i can at least go in there and survey "stuff".
Then my boy came home with a steamer, and put it in the gap I'd made.

MayBee70 Sun 17-May-26 23:58:45

My problem is that I’m obsessed with keeping drawers and cupboards well organised but can’t get to grips with what’s outside of the cupboards.

rafichagran Sun 17-May-26 23:31:46

I need to de clutter, it's the cupboards that are full. My living space is very clear and I don't have alot of ornaments, but anything I don't use I have put away, a case of out of sight out of mind.
I am starting tommorow with a trip to the recycling centre. I then hope to clear one thing a day. I have been thinking this for ages though.

LizH13 Sun 17-May-26 23:18:00

Thanks for the encouragement, I was spurred on to take six books to the community book swap box, and for once I didn’t bring any back! Although six books hasn’t really made much impression on the amount of stuff that needs to go. But onward and upward, maybe this could be the start of something.

Allira Sun 17-May-26 20:31:23

Decluttering some yarn. I did three rows of crochet today.

JoyBloggs Sun 17-May-26 20:25:39

Very interesting to read all this! I started decluttering several years ago... I bought a little notebook and pledged to get rid of one thing a day and I stuck to this for a long time. Trouble was that there were many thousand things to get rid of and I'd be about 200 years old before it was finished...

Art and craft stuff is my big problem. Got loads of embroidery fabric, threads, calligraphy stuff, knitting wool, paper, card, paint, crayons, rubber stamps, wood, it's just endless. We downsized 6 months ago and I disposed of piles of stuff in readiness so how can I possibly still have at least 20 packing cases of crafty stuff? They are all in a small bedroom where, hopefully, I will work on future projects but it needs decorating. It currently has wallpaper featuring dinosaurs which aren't really my cup of tea! So the boxes will all have to be moved out to a downstairs room which at the moment is stuffed with numerous boxes of books plus bedding, linen, surplus curtains etc from our family home. I kept all this in case our move fell through and we stayed there till popping our clogs and needed it for all the beds/guests. In the end only 8 days between exchange of contracts and the move so it all got thrown on the removal vans and I'm still sorting it all out.

And then there's the clothes... ancient stuff that I live in most of the time, posh stuff that rarely sees the light of day, stuff that's too big but I should probably keep 'just in case'!

Off now to find something to chuck... will follow the thread and hope to be inspired by more efficient declutterers!

Calendargirl Sun 17-May-26 19:28:03

Good luck valdali..

smile

Cabbie21 Sun 17-May-26 19:27:37

I amazed myself today and threw out a top. I have so many, I won’t miss it, but I can rarely bring myself to get rid of any.

MissAdventure Sun 17-May-26 18:16:03

I've got two floor standing fans in the cupboard, and they take up souch room.
The bases are ideal toe stub, trip hazards.

MissAdventure Sun 17-May-26 18:13:38

Chocolatelovinggran

There must be something in the air today, MissA- I've just decluttered one bra. We can sleep tonight knowing it's a job well done..

I've thrown one, and lost one.
The one I've lost has a false boob in it, though. grin

MayBee70 Sun 17-May-26 17:48:37

I’m really enjoying reorganising my kitchen cupboards. If anyone wants me to satellite in and do theirs I’m available…

Chocolatelovinggran Sun 17-May-26 17:41:05

There must be something in the air today, MissA- I've just decluttered one bra. We can sleep tonight knowing it's a job well done..

AskAlice Sun 17-May-26 17:39:41

Oh don't talk to me about books! We have two six-shelf bookcases in our living room, two in the loft and a little one in our guest room. Full of stuff that we haven't looked at for years. Old reference books/encyclopedias/gardening books (I go online now if I need advice or information on gardening), art books from my Uni days, autobiographies of old sixties pop stars, football books. None of our books are classics apart from a few school prize books. My books take up about two shelves of the 5 bookcases.

I know I wouldn't miss anything that I got rid of, but my OH won't let any of his go and I don't see why I should get rid of all my stuff if he's not willing to. Petty I know but even if I binned the lot it wouldn't make that much difference in the great scheme of things.

Add to that about 15 large crates of old football programmes in the loft - it's a wonder the ceiling doesn't fall in!

HelterSkelter1 Sun 17-May-26 16:21:54

Yippee. The old bicycle has gone. I didn't see who took it. But it had 2 very flat perished tyres so it must be someone who will refurbish it. It wasn't rideable. Bit it has gone. We have another similar in the shed, but it is DDs so I must check with her firsr. It is a sort of collectable old Ladies Raleigh, but again not rideable and would need money spent before I could sell it. If it would sell of course.

valdali Sun 17-May-26 16:15:29

Calendargirl

But the books are his problem, not yours valdali.

If he hasn’t room to store them, he should either

a) make room
b) get rid of some.
c) put them in storage, (but not with you!)

Otherwise you keep holding on to them until he gets a bigger
home, which could be years away.

Surprising how it focuses the mind, when the responsibility for storage comes to the actual owner of said items,

I might mention it, seeing him this weekend. He will act as though he thought he was doing me a favour leaving his precious books to adorn my home & life - he reads non-fiction & I read novels for preference, although I read a lot of his during Covid. His flat is like an Alladins cave, the older I get the more I like uncluttered surroundings.
I will find a tactful way to broach the subject...

Cabbie21 Sun 17-May-26 16:11:02

Indefinitely!

MayBee70 Sun 17-May-26 16:09:22

Well I don’t need to throw away my coffee percolator because I broke it last night whilst moving things away from the ant invasion. Which is annoying as, even though I rarely drink percolated coffee I do like to have one in the house. I’m rearranging my kitchen. I can’t see what’s in the larder as it’s jam packed so I’m moving things into cupboards. Trouble is I don’t have anywhere to put the stuff I’ve moved out of the cupboards! And when I eventually have my knee done I won’t be able to reach up to the top cupboard shelves but, by then I should have reduced the amount of stuff on them. But what I have moved is now labelled with use by dates. How long after best before dates can baked beans be used? And how do I dispose of them?