Disappearing contributors - part 2

Why would you feel you have to agree with the reporter mollygo I d rather be deleted than agree with someone who has done this to a fellow human being
I wonder if she meant it to go this far ? has she purposely targeted Allira and if so why ? Or was it just a silly moment of taking offence at a joke
She is still happily posting I believe

I reported myself again yesterday but got response whatsoever. I'll try again today.

Flipping phone and I should proof read.

I meant that if we keep reporting it GN will have to take notice.

Do we know that anyone from GNHQ is reading this thread?

I said upthread that maybe we should keep reporting it - is meant so that they have to rake notice of it.

Thanks for your post Petra. it sums it up neatly.
It’s the immediate cut off,
nowhere to turn,
no chance to look at the post which was reported and, unless you’ve exchanged emails, no chance to get in touch with those you’ve come to regard as friends on GN.

The person who reported me is still there and I know that they are protected . . .
even if only by the system, is one of the most worrying aspects.

At the moment, I avoid posts by the poster(s) I think were responsible, or make sure I’m careful to agree with them and I copy and save the post I’m answering and the response I put because I worry about being policed off. That’s not how I thought GN would be.

IMO (we’re allowed opinions)I wish I didn’t think someone is enjoying this thread for all the wrong reasons, but I do.
And the worry that this post might be my last because I’ve upset them by putting that . . .

Aveline

Allira when you come back with a different name can you please PM me?
PS I hope that's soon

Be assured that all my friends will be informed 😂

Allira when you come back with a different name can you please PM me?
PS I hope that's soon

How many of us have asked ourselves what would I do in this situation.
I couldn’t come back as Petra for obvious reasons. The person who reported me is still there and I know that they are protected by the powers that be.
I could come back under the rada but I’ve lost all my friends
The new Petra would have no friends here, no shared experiences etc.
It would be like starting a new school.
Millions of people use social media just to have their say on different subjects but that’s not the case for the majority of members here.
So we are where we are 😥

I wish I knew who the poster is who has done this. Need to avoid that person.

Very good poem LauranOrder, sadly you won't get an answer in verse or straight talk. Meanwhile the orchestrator of ridding GN of our favourite member, a state she couldn't even get slightly close to, is still a presence

Good Morning Allira on this rainy Saturday, wishing you an enjoyable weekend x

MartavTaurus

What pleasure does the reporting poster get from continuing on this site when they have caused such upset?

Brilliant verse LauraNorderr. Very apt.

They're probably sitting up there on their moral high ground rubbing their hands in glee at the absolute sh**show they've created!

One week later and no further forward.

I am being exceptionally cautious when visiting the N & P threads, their robustness seems rather, well, unbalanced 🤷‍♀️

I like your song LauranOrderr. Made me smile on a thread where there's nothing to smile about.

What pleasure does the reporting poster get from continuing on this site when they have caused such upset?

Brilliant verse LauraNorderr. Very apt.

Rosie51

Surely if they were confident in their assessment they'd show Allira their evidence? That's the mystery, why won't they share that with her? They were willing to decimate her reputation and character publicly but not willing to share evidence with her privately. It's brutal and cruel and totally unworthy.

Yes there she was, gone!
Enjoy Alliras posts & never seen any bad mindedness from her.
In fact she was the one person I thought of asking, when I was missing a poster I hadn’t seen for a few weeks.
Very helpful.

Brilliant LauraNorderr

Love the song LauraNorderr. It makes the point really well.
I fear the reporter would not see it that way though.

LauraNorderr

If GN aren’t going to give us any answers then perhaps the poster who did all the goading and reporting would like to come and tell us why.
🎶poster, poster, give us an answer do,
We’re half crazy
Waiting to hear from you
A big mistake to disparage
We don’t like this miscarriage
But we’ll be sweet at your defeat
So now it’s up to you 🎶

😅👏👏👏

If GN aren’t going to give us any answers then perhaps the poster who did all the goading and reporting would like to come and tell us why.
🎶poster, poster, give us an answer do,
We’re half crazy
Waiting to hear from you
A big mistake to disparage
We don’t like this miscarriage
But we’ll be sweet at your defeat
So now it’s up to you 🎶

I think they are seeing a good sense of fun and humour and turning it into a total negative, but maybe we ll never know as they don’t seem to want to have any kind of discussion with us, much the same as they don’t want any discussion with Allira

HQ it’s your turn we are all waiting to hear from you

What I don't like is the inference that Allira deliberately set out to be goading or offensive in her style. It's not as though she got up every morning and thought, now who can I elicit a negative reaction from today on GN by instigating an argument that has nothing to do with the discussion?

Surely if they were confident in their assessment they'd show Allira their evidence? That's the mystery, why won't they share that with her? They were willing to decimate her reputation and character publicly but not willing to share evidence with her privately. It's brutal and cruel and totally unworthy.

Yes. Indubitably something has gone badly wrong. Wires crossed somewhere.

LauraNorderr

I can’t believe just how many of you lovely, funny, interesting and inoffensive posters have been threatened with banishment. Something is rotten in the state of GNHQ.

👏👏👏👏👏

FriedGreenTomatoes2

I hate the lack of transparency LauraNorderr

The mods TELL us how it happens but in actuality is does not.

Why would posters blatantly ignore a warning (or several as they say)? Anyone doing this would be sailing close to the wind. It just doesn’t add up.

I feel cheated to be honest believing that there is a procedure when there isn’t one.

Maybe the mods are of the opinion that deletions from thread ‘are’ warnings?

However some posters get deleted many times and are still with us!
So that assumption doesn’t hold water either.

No wonder after a banning we all (or most of us) walk on eggshells …

Trigger happy posters just waiting t for us to get caught in their crosshairs is how I’m viewing it now so I’m going to swerve any contentious threads

No more Farage, Trump, rubber boat people or dissention of left leaning ideology will ever be posted again by myself. It’s no longer worth the risk with this opaque regulatory stance by the mods.

And it’s such a shame too as much more robust debates take place over in Mumsnet.

They must think that if any of US dared to post in a similar vein that some posters would be reaching for the smelling salts.

Well said FGT