A quote for those blessed with a spouse:

So sorry to read of your heartbreaking loss Basgetti. Commiserations to you and your family

I lost my DH 19 weeks ago after 57 years im heartbroken. Devastated, i now tell everyone love them like there is no tomorrow, dont put off telling them by leaving it till tomorrow as tomorrow never comes and you too will be devaststed. I used to tell my DH daily at least he knew when he passed my heart, my love my very being went with him. My life will never be the same again he was My Mr Wonderful been with him since i was 17,im in bits. Take care everyone. He was my life and one and only true love there will never be anyone else for me xxx

Mystyeyes11

Mystyeyes11

I lost my DH 19 weeks ago after 57 years im heartbroken. Devastated, i now tell everyone love them like there is no tomorrow, dont put off telling them by leaving it till tomorrow as tomorrow never comes and you too will be devaststed. I used to tell my DH daily at least he knew when he passed my heart, my love my very being went with him. My life will never be the same again he was My Mr Wonderful been with him since i was 17,im in bits. Take care everyone. He was my life and one and only true love there will never be anyone else for me xxx

Oh darling, so very sorry.

How lovely, yet how sad, lovely that you found a soulmate so early and you stayed loving each other so long, but sad that he has left you through no fault except destiny.
Hold on to every minute and memory of that love, you are one lucky lady who will be totally heartbroken but have such memories 💐❤️

Thankyou I have cried continally since i lost him, no purpose to anything xxx

I am so sorry, Basgetti. What a horrible shock for you. I know exactly what you mean by wanting to go with them, it feels terrible to be the one left behind.

It’s ten weeks ago for me and today is my daughter’s wedding. Such a maelstrom of emotions.

SueDonim I hope you still enjoy the wedding and you know your beloved husband would want you and your family to have a lovely day. Take care

Sending my condolences Basgetti 💐

Mystyeyes11
Basgetti
SueDonim

Thinking of you all. As FGT has so bravely said - they would want you to carry on and live a happy life. Easy words for me to type I know but I hope you find the strength in time to do just that. 💙💙💙

Crumbs, SueDonim, you will be an emotional wreck by the end of today. Everyone will understand the mixed emotions though. Be gentle with yourself.

So sorry to hear about you lost your love so recently Basgetti.

Yes I consider every day a bonus with my DH.

Suedonim I was wondering how you were getting on. I hope you manage to enjoy your DD's wedding it will be hard for you all.
Mystyeyes

He has been in my life from a very early age i dont know how to live without him he was and still is my world always will be. My condolences to all going through this horrendously difficult time my thoughts and prayers are with you all xxxx

Mystyeyes11

I lost my DH 19 weeks ago after 57 years im heartbroken. Devastated, i now tell everyone love them like there is no tomorrow, dont put off telling them by leaving it till tomorrow as tomorrow never comes and you too will be devaststed. I used to tell my DH daily at least he knew when he passed my heart, my love my very being went with him. My life will never be the same again he was My Mr Wonderful been with him since i was 17,im in bits. Take care everyone. He was my life and one and only true love there will never be anyone else for me xxx

I am very sorry for your loss too, Mystyeyes11. Take care.

We,ve worked together for 52 years been married for 51 of them ,he makes me laugh every single day and I absolutely adore the man that he is.
I can’t imagine life without him.

Basgetti
Mystyeyes
Suedonim
I can only imagine how you must be feeling, how very hard it must be to start another day without the love of your life, be good to yourselves and take care ,

I love my spouse. We’ve been together for 42 years. He does a lot around the house and runs me about as I don’t drive. He’s also a wonderful father and grandfather. Of course he annoys me at times, as I do him but I cannot bear to think of life without him. So, yes, I must stop and be thankful for I have been blessed.

Every day is harder than the one before, . He was and still is my Mr.Wonderful he truly was a wonderful man heaven sent. I am priveleged to have married him once and he married me again on our silver wedding.
Pably15

BlueBelle

I m grateful I got rid of both my spouses 🤣

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Sending big love and hugs and best wishes to all those missing their loved ones, especially spouses.

When I read on here of Grans loosing their husbands/partners, I feel so grateful that I still have mine. I never take that for granted.
I couldn’t imagine my life without him to the point it might sound selfish, but I really hope I go first
To all the GNs, Sorry for the loss of your husbands/ partners especially on Father’s Day 😞

MT62 thank you. For our family it wasn’t only Father’s Day but DHs birthday too. We spent the afternoon at the hospice sharing our happy memories of times we had together.
We go there most anniversaries.
Funnily enough I prayed my darling man would go before me because I couldn’t bear for him to have this pain. If you love a lot, it hurts a lot. I do miss him so much

Doodle

MT62 thank you. For our family it wasn’t only Father’s Day but DHs birthday too. We spent the afternoon at the hospice sharing our happy memories of times we had together.
We go there most anniversaries.
Funnily enough I prayed my darling man would go before me because I couldn’t bear for him to have this pain. If you love a lot, it hurts a lot. I do miss him so much

Ahh bless. 🫂

for you Basgetti, Mystyeyes and Suedonim.