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Crying over sad songs on the radio

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granfromafar Sun 21-Jun-26 09:55:35

Just listening to Michael Ball on Radio2, and he played Lean on Me by Bill Withers. Couldn't stop the tears coming, as it's so poignant. I seem to feel a lot like this recently whenever I hear certain songs; Carole King's You've got a Friend is another one. Never used to feel like this, so must be an age thing! Also, the fact that he's pjaying lots of Father's Day dedications isn't helping! Anyone else have songs which set them off?

nanna8 Sun 21-Jun-26 10:00:30

I feel sad when I hear the songs played at my parent’s funerals. Time to say goodbye, You were always on my mind and Nessun Dorma. Also Nearer my God to Thee which they were supposedly playing when the Titanic went down. Oh, and It is well with my Soul - when you think what happened to that poor man’s family.

MiniMoon Sun 21-Jun-26 10:07:46

Slipping through my fingers by ABBA sets me off every time I hear it.
Also The Pearl Fishers duet just because its so beautiful.

Cossy Sun 21-Jun-26 10:11:37

Yep!! Lots of songs, including two Eva Cassidy’s (not original to her), Fields of Gold & Songbird, ABBA’s Winner Takes It All and Slipping Through My Fingers amongst many others.

But then since getting older and post menopausal I cry at too much! Happy tears and sad tears, at films, books, songs, and so on!

Even used to cry at some adverts and TV programs, utter madness!

Redcar Sun 21-Jun-26 10:18:32

Definitely Slipping through my Fingers and Our last Summer both ABBA songs
My mum was a trained singer and used to sing the Pearl Fishers so that sets me off, as does Nessun Dorma!

beachcomber76 Sun 21-Jun-26 10:39:13

Quite a few set me off. At our ages we've lots of memories.

The Winner Takes It All - Abba, makes me cry every time [after a bad break-up].

Circle of Life - Elton John. Played at my mothers funeral.

Valerie - Steve Winwood. My cousin, named Valerie died 2 years ago.

I Will Always Love You - Whitney Houston. For people I've loved and lost.

Skyline Pigeon - Elton John. Play it my funeral.

One Day Like This - played at a son's wedding.

Barcelona - Freddie Mercury/Montserrat Caballe

Georgesgran Sun 21-Jun-26 10:45:08

Dance with my father, by Luther Vandross - we played it at DH’s funeral.

Time in a Bottle, Jim Croche, (which will be at my funeral) always sets me off, and Elgar’s Nimrod. Joan Baez singing ‘Forever Young’ - really too many to mention these days!

Calendargirl Sun 21-Jun-26 10:45:29

I think many of us feel more tearful as we grow older.

Life and loss I suppose.

When you’re young, empathy is often lacking.

keepcalmandcavachon Sun 21-Jun-26 12:05:00

I've always been like this but now older feel less embarassed if 'caught out' in public! It seems to be less embarassing to others to witness if you are older somehow.
I remember sobbing my heart in reception class at The Grandfather Clock song!

valdali Sun 21-Jun-26 12:12:08

I'm not a crier and it's not a favourite song, but John Denver singing Annie's song - every time.

GrannyIvy Sun 21-Jun-26 12:12:29

Walk on with hope in your heart always reduces me to tears whoever sings it

Bukkie Sun 21-Jun-26 12:15:45

I cry at adverts! I cry when I hear Whitney Houston songs because it reminds me of the tragic loss of her young life. Luther Vandross Dance with my father is a tearjerker. Also Beth Neilson Chapman I see your smile

25Avalon Sun 21-Jun-26 12:24:06

“Take me home, Country Roads” and the hymn “We plough the fields and scatter” where “all is safely gathered in” and “free from sorrow, free from sin” makes me think of my late son.

BoggledMind Sun 21-Jun-26 12:24:13

There are songs that bring tears to my eyes and I'm not ashamed or embarrassed to admit it, even though I'm a man and we're not supposed to cry at things are we? That's an outdated concept anyway.

1916 by Motörhead - a ballad about teenagers going off to war in WW1. It's heartbreaking to listen to and always affects me.

Can't You See
This Ol' Cowboy
24 Hours At A Time

These are by The Marshall Tucker Band and I love these songs but they often bring a tear to my eye. They were one of my late twin brother's favourite bands and hearing these songs often affects me.

By The Time I Get To Phoenix by Glen Campbell - It just does.

sodapop Sun 21-Jun-26 12:27:35

Michael Ball played Dance with my Father today Bukkie and GeorgesGran beautiful song and so apt for today.

petra Sun 21-Jun-26 12:37:05

Only one.
I Miss the Hungry Years by Neil Sedaka.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=avTD_-wK0jw

Visgir1 Sun 21-Jun-26 12:38:01

I was in bits when Michael Ball played "Somewhere over the Rainbow" this morning for Father's no longer here. My Dad has been gone 12 years, I still miss him every day.
Dancing with my Father is another one that has me in tears.
Sad but lovely, that all that love is still inside you.

Shel1951 Sun 21-Jun-26 12:57:09

For me its the attachment to memories that does it, people now deceased and the times we had , time gone so quickly,
Places of old...

eddiecat78 Sun 21-Jun-26 13:14:57

I defy anyone who has a daughter not to be affected by Slipping Through My Fingers