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Why don’t men shave any more?

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Daddima Mon 29-Jun-26 17:45:03

I have just looked at a video on You Tube, and all of the men ( all over 50) have what I believe is called ‘designer stubble’. Does anyone find this look attractive?
Even Paul McCartney, whom I have loved since I was 11, is sporting an unshaven chin.
Do they really believe it looks good?

Oreo Wed 01-Jul-26 17:02:10

Imarocker

DH accidentally shaved his stubble off. He looked like his mother. I wanted to ask him to wear a mask till it grew back.

😂

Oreo Wed 01-Jul-26 17:01:04

AmberGran

GrannyGravy13

I am rather partial to designer stubble 👍

Me too - depending on who it is though as it doesn't suit everyone.

Suits darker haired men.
Stubble is ok as long as it isn’t grey😲
Why do so many younger men sport terrorist beards? Ugh.

AuntieE Wed 01-Jul-26 16:45:37

I too find so-called designer stubble scruffy and unappealling.

I much prefer men to be either clean shaven, or to wear a full beard and moustache, or a moustache and shave the rest of their face properly.

However, I can well understand why men could find shaving daily, or twice a day, as some do, tedious.

Deepat Wed 01-Jul-26 16:17:41

MissAdventure

A lot of full beards contain red/ginger hair in them.

Love a ginger beard and a kilt

Deepat Wed 01-Jul-26 16:13:57

Galaxy

Oh God I hate a beard.
I agree Valdali, it is like a uniform for young men these days.

Oh I think all men look better with a beard.

Deepat Wed 01-Jul-26 16:12:04

MissAdventure

Sod George Michael

Wow! My kind of man! ( in my dreams)

Imarocker Wed 01-Jul-26 15:53:36

DH accidentally shaved his stubble off. He looked like his mother. I wanted to ask him to wear a mask till it grew back.

BlueBelle Wed 01-Jul-26 15:28:32

My grandson has a very nice beard
I had a boyfriend once who I only knew with a beard, a nice neat one he said he was thinking of shaving it off and one day he did, I didn’t like it at all he looked much better with it. He had to regrow it
My son shaved his head to avoid going bald and has done so since he was about 30

Redhead56 Wed 01-Jul-26 14:54:56

My son has the unshaved look but he can carry it off he is tall and handsome.

MissAdventure Wed 01-Jul-26 14:39:29

I'd have stubble, and I'd sit stroking it at every opportunity.
smile

missdeke Wed 01-Jul-26 14:36:32

If I was a man I'd have stubble, Imagine that business of having to shave every day, what a pain.

Suzieque66 Wed 01-Jul-26 13:56:38

Cant bear all that hair .. but I did love Tom Jones !!!!!

Fallingstar Tue 30-Jun-26 17:46:27

I don’t really like designer stubble and beards but is up to men what they do with their appearance, however, imho older men who have stubble or a beard do look much older and if sloppily dressed can look as if they are neglecting themselves.

M0nica Tue 30-Jun-26 17:34:29

Galaxy

I don't bother with the extensive snogging lot either grin

Not now, but I did smile

MissAdventure Tue 30-Jun-26 13:19:24

A lot of full beards contain red/ginger hair in them.

Jaxjacky Tue 30-Jun-26 13:10:59

🤣🤣 SueD
MrJ has similar growth Ashcombe, but greyer, I think because he is/was a redhead. I like it.

SueDonim Tue 30-Jun-26 13:04:47

Greyduster’s post reminds me of my parents’ friend. He was a bobby in the local police after his naval service. He requested permission to grow a beard, as in his navy days. A reply came back from the inspector - permission granted to grow a beard, but only in his own time, not while on duty. grin

MissAdventure Tue 30-Jun-26 07:57:39

My window cleaner has a beard and a man bun. smile
Not that I extensively snog him.

Galaxy Tue 30-Jun-26 07:47:42

I don't bother with the extensive snogging lot either grin

MissAdventure Tue 30-Jun-26 07:45:18

smile

M0nica Tue 30-Jun-26 07:07:45

Galaxy

Oh God I hate a beard.
I agree Valdali, it is like a uniform for young men these days.

But once not having one was like a uniform for young men.

Beards have been going in and out of fashion for hundreds of years. Look at the way they change shape ans style through the 19th century.

I love a man with a beard. DH has had one for over 50 years. His is good naval style, Captain Pugwash beard. it is smooth and silky .DS has more than designer stubble but less than his father. DGS is just starting to reach the whisker growing age, so we wait to see what the fashion will be in this cohort.

Shaven men can really rough your skin up when there is any extensive snogging.

Grandma70s Tue 30-Jun-26 07:06:52

One of my sons has ‘designer stubble’, and he can just about get away with it. I don’t like it, but it’s not as bad as a beard. I would never, ever go out with a man with a beard, let alone marry one. I always wonder why they are trying to hide.

fancyflowers Tue 30-Jun-26 06:24:54

This reminds me of when I was teaching in a primary school in a rough area.
The mum of a girl came to parents' evening and one male teacher asked, "Does she take after you or is she clean shaven?"

( That's the story I heard anyway!)

Greyduster Tue 30-Jun-26 04:50:13

I’m not a fan of beards. DH was a soldier for 22 years and was not allowed to grow one (they can now), but for quite a long time he did cultivate quite a sexy moustache. The day he retired from the Army, he said he was going to grow a beard. I hated it so it didn’t last long, then the moustache went too. DS has a beard. He looked much younger without it.

CocoPops Tue 30-Jun-26 02:49:36

I watched a local game of baseball in the park recently. One team were decked out in white and purple kit, most had beards and they all sported purple wigs!