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Why don’t men shave any more?

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Daddima Mon 29-Jun-26 17:45:03

I have just looked at a video on You Tube, and all of the men ( all over 50) have what I believe is called ‘designer stubble’. Does anyone find this look attractive?
Even Paul McCartney, whom I have loved since I was 11, is sporting an unshaven chin.
Do they really believe it looks good?

MissChateline Mon 29-Jun-26 21:41:49

I’m not a beard lover at all. I can’t think of anything worse than a scratchy one and I do wonder how much wildlife lives in them. The guardian had a piece this week about a female partner who was fed up of all the food lodged in his beard. Yuck.
I feel the same about Rasta type dreadlocks.
Possibly one of the reasons that I’m happy being a lesbian !

SueDonim Mon 29-Jun-26 21:41:20

I really don’t mind. My Dh had a beard on and off all our married life. It got so I could never bring to mind whether he had a beard on any given day or not, unless I could see him. grin In later years, he had a more designer stubble look.

paddyann54 Mon 29-Jun-26 21:30:23

My husband has had a beard since he was 17 and he’s gorgeous,he shaved it off for charity once about 25 years ago but it had grown back within the week…just as well.I didn,t like him barefaced and our daughter walked past him in a supermarket and didn,t recognise him.
When I worked in Glasgow over 50 years ago over half the photographers had beards so it’s not a new fashion.
I love beards .

eddiecat78 Mon 29-Jun-26 21:09:17

The only time I've seen OH without a beard he was wearing a dress. It was a vice versa fancy dress party in 1977 - I wore a suit.
He grew it again immediately,. Now he, our son and son-in-law all have beards. I'm all in favour.

Ashcombe Mon 29-Jun-26 20:53:52

I’ve always liked men with beards, going back to when they were popular in my student days (late 60’s). My DH of nearly 11 years sports a neatly groomed beard which suits him well (IMHO!)

Luckygirl3 Mon 29-Jun-26 20:52:47

Neat ... not nest!

Luckygirl3 Mon 29-Jun-26 20:52:02

My late OH had designer stubble and very nice it was too!
What I hate are the fussy nest sculpted beards ... what a turn- off .....

CanadianGran Mon 29-Jun-26 20:35:59

I'm not keen on beards; they seem unkempt for most who sport them, including my son 35. His is very thick; his wife trained as a hairdresser so will keep him trimmed up, but it seems he is always getting crumbs stuck in it.

I'm not saying they don't look attractive on some, but it's just not my fav look.

watermeadow Mon 29-Jun-26 20:28:35

It’s just the fashion, it will pass. I hope.
To me stubble looks scruffy and the beards worn by so many men are identical and make them all look alike.
Worst of all are the little moustaches, apparently back after 75 years. Old films were full of them and my father grew one, briefly.

Magenta8 Mon 29-Jun-26 20:08:56

I think men and women, should go for whatever look they feel happiest with. My cousin wanted to grow a beard but his wife didn't like them so he was not allowed to.

Fallingstar Mon 29-Jun-26 19:34:23

Not sure the look suits everyone. Roy Keane for one.

MissAdventure Mon 29-Jun-26 19:30:04

A ggood beard takes quite a bit of maintenance. smile

Ladyleftfieldlover Mon 29-Jun-26 19:25:30

I like a beard. It has to be in good order though! Apparently Peter Green (late Fleetwood Mac guitarist and singer) had pieces of cheese in his beard for weeks.

I disagree that not shaving is laziness. Surely looking after a beard, trimming it, grooming it etc., must take far longer than a quick shave?

dotpocka Mon 29-Jun-26 19:24:39

stubble ok.beards are awful,staches ok

Bridey Mon 29-Jun-26 19:20:00

Im with your taste Miss Aventure👍

AmberGran Mon 29-Jun-26 19:13:12

Maybe because some spend so much time shaving their heads as soon as they start balding? No time for their chins...

tanith Mon 29-Jun-26 19:08:21

My son is 50 next week and he looks great with his ‘designer stubble’ he’s worn it like that for years his partner likes it too.

Doodledog Mon 29-Jun-26 18:34:47

GrannyGravy13

MissAdventure

Sod George Michael

Ooh Aah Mrs…

That's exactly what I was going to say grin

Nell82 Mon 29-Jun-26 18:34:25

A very friendly delivery man came to the door last week with his beard plaited in a 6" pigtail. He carried it off well.

Harry the young tree surgeon arrived with shiny dark brown shoulder length hair and a decent beard. It was 90º and I felt for him with his helmet on as he welded his chainsaw. Again he looked the part. Roughty-toughty and rarin' to go!

I think men's hairstyles can be really creative these days. Not like the days of the mullets and perms.

Galaxy Mon 29-Jun-26 18:32:56

Oh God I hate a beard.
I agree Valdali, it is like a uniform for young men these days.

MissAdventure Mon 29-Jun-26 18:32:44

grin

GrannyGravy13 Mon 29-Jun-26 18:30:21

MissAdventure

Sod George Michael

Ooh Aah Mrs…

MissAdventure Mon 29-Jun-26 18:27:20

Sod George Michael

valdali Mon 29-Jun-26 18:26:52

George Michael was shaven - just not clean-shaven.

I quite like beards but I do think it they tend to make quite different-looking people look similar.

Casdon Mon 29-Jun-26 18:25:05

AmberGran

GrannyGravy13

I am rather partial to designer stubble 👍

Me too - depending on who it is though as it doesn't suit everyone.

And me- it has to be properly maintained though.