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Does anyone have a middle name?

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polomint Sat 18-Jul-26 14:52:52

My grandaughter is going to have a baby soon and I presume he/ she will have a middle name. I hope so. It is one of my regrets that my husband did not want his daughter's to have a middle name as he thought it was only for " posh" people. I have a middle name and I am not posh I told him . I did however make sure our son had a middle name but I still regret our daughters didn't

kittylester Sat 18-Jul-26 18:09:07

My middle name is Jane - lots of us about.

My brothers both have 2 middle names one of which is my French great grandmother's maiden name. It appealed to the snob in my mum. I imagine i was not worthy.

Ours all have 2 names as do the grandchildren.

Gingster Sat 18-Jul-26 18:07:11

No I don’t have one. Always been a bit miffed about that.

Georgesgran Sat 18-Jul-26 18:01:50

I’ve my great grandmother’s middle name as my middle name, which I passed onto DD1. We used a popular name as a middle name for DD2. Both DGSs have middle names, in fact DGS1 has two.
DH was always known by his middle name, as his Mother disliked the way her family shortened his first name. DH hated that middle name, which had actually been picked by his then 5 year old sister.

MissAdventure Sat 18-Jul-26 17:46:03

My grandsons don't have middle names, and have very short first names.

ViceVersa Sat 18-Jul-26 17:45:30

No, I don't and neither do either of my children. Never saw the point in them, to be honest.

polomint Sat 18-Jul-26 17:44:21

When doing my side of the family tree, all my ancestors had middle names , usually the gran's maiden name

Fartooold Sat 18-Jul-26 17:41:57

All my lot have middle names and we ain’t posh.
When we adopted we never changed their first names it was the one thing their birth parents gave them, however we did give them middle names of our choice. Actually we did have to change a daughter’s name as it replicated one of our birth children’s name.

HelterSkelter1 Sat 18-Jul-26 16:26:14

I have never actually thought about whether or not people have a middle name. It surprised me to hear that some people haven't got one.
I have one so do our DDs. DH has 2 and we have no idea where one has come from! Too late to ask now.

I must look on the family birth certificates I have of my GPs and see whether they have middle names. One GM changed the spelling of her first name as it was the same name as her DHs first wife.
Its strange how so much you take for granted until you stop and think about it. So middle names I am now thinking about.

Luckygirl3 Sat 18-Jul-26 16:22:21

I have too. Rule number one: avoid a middle name that begins with a vowel as it can produce some interesting initials!!

polomint Sat 18-Jul-26 16:21:20

In answer to * witzend*... his mother and the rest of his family. So to keep things ok, I gave in!

Plevey08 Sat 18-Jul-26 16:21:14

That's a lovely story Overthemoon. Clever parents!

Witzend Sat 18-Jul-26 16:14:35

Where on earth did he get the idea that middle names are only for ‘posh’ people? They’ve been pretty normal for all sorts for a long time.

Dylis Sat 18-Jul-26 16:14:01

I have my Mum's maiden name as my middle name. I hated it when I was child but enjoyed using it s a double barrel type surname in my teens.
My Mum also had her mother's surname as her middle name. I have no idea why and didn't ask if it was a family tradition.

merlotgran Sat 18-Jul-26 16:13:07

My middle name was also my mother’s middle name and my grandmother’s first name.
DGD2 also has it as her middle name.

JackyB Sat 18-Jul-26 16:11:52

I was very touched when my DS2 have his 3rd daughter my mother's name as a middle name, as she (my DM) had died the year before the baby was born.

A warning though:we gave two of my boys middle names which were to be used as their day-to-day names. The only reason being that it scanned better(!) We have a single syllable surname and the names we had chosen for them were 2 and 3 syllables So we plonked a single syllable name in front. They have cursed us for this ever since. They are often addressed by this redundant first name in official correspondence and have to be careful filling in forms.

By the way, the German word for the name you are generally known by is Rufname. A useful word, especially in their cases! Sometimes there is even a space for it when filling in forms.

Lizzies Sat 18-Jul-26 16:09:59

Neither my husband or I had a middle name, but we gave our daughter one and she has gone one further with her sons who both have two names and two family names.

Labradora Sat 18-Jul-26 15:59:04

MissAdventure

My mum absolutely denied having a middle name as she disliked it so much, but it wasn't that bad, in my opinion.

This has prompted me to remember that my late mother had two middle names so at least one was definitely not a confirmation name; my late father and my younger sister both had an "extra" or middle name but I'm not sure if they were "confirmation" names that they used as a middle name or alternatively were given at birth; neither I nor my elder sister had a middle name given at birth so we come as a very plain package names-wise.

Overthemoongran Sat 18-Jul-26 15:47:40

Before my younger brother was born I had an imaginary friend. At the age of three I was allowed to give that name to my brother, one of his two middle names, and I never needed my imaginary friend again.

Bukkie Sat 18-Jul-26 15:46:46

My middle name is Louise like most people born in the 70s.

Sarnia Sat 18-Jul-26 15:41:28

I have Elizabeth as my middle name as my Grandmothers were Elizabeth and Eliza. In my family at least, middle names are usually family ones.

Ashcombe Sat 18-Jul-26 15:40:03

My sister and I were both given second names both of which were Biblical. I in turn bestowed my second name on my DD2. She dislikes it intensely, probably because of a girl she knew at Primary School with that name whom she disliked!

polomint Sat 18-Jul-26 15:39:39

I always thought that having a middle name would be beneficial in signing legal documents. There could be plenty " John Smith" for example but not many " John Alan Smith" so no mix ups

Grandma70s Sat 18-Jul-26 15:39:12

I have a middle name, but my brother doesn’t. My father thought boys should only have one name, as he had. Don’t know why.

My own sons have middle names. I tried to give them middle names that were rather more ordinary than their first names, in case they preferred to switch. Neither has done.

My grandchildren both have three names (that is, two middle names). Much more scope for the imagination!

MissAdventure Sat 18-Jul-26 15:34:04

My mum absolutely denied having a middle name as she disliked it so much, but it wasn't that bad, in my opinion.

Plevey08 Sat 18-Jul-26 15:22:36

I know what you mean Ekwa as my husband insisted on giving our youngest son a middle name, the same as his father's. My son just doesn't use it. He has to in any legal situation or marriage etc but grimaces when he hears it.