Grammaretto
I used to yearn to live in the countryside and still daydream about it but we were always thinking of the practicalities and our forever home this one that I am now selling is 10 miles from the city centre, on 5 bus routes, across the road to the shops, a walk to school but a very short walk to open countryside.
So many of my friends spent their time ferrying youngsters to school or to after-school activities.
DD lives 12 miles from the nearest town in the Scottish Highlands and her DC have to be driven everywhere. It's a paradise in the Summer but can feel very isolated.
Her DC have bus passes but never use them.
I was about 12 miles from our main town. We had 1 bus in and 2 buses out per day (private coach operator) which went within a mile of the house.
School run - Mum drove me to nearest stop, 45 mins on coach, 10 mins walk to public bus-stop, 14 minutes on bus, 2 mins walk to school. Same in reverse except that if Mum was busy I would walk the last mile.My auntie (same school) used to cycle 6 miules to main road & then catch a bus as there wasn't even the coach route then.
The private school day-pupils were on the same coach & I had 3 sets of friends - school, commute, & village - with precious little overlap.Mum also used to ferry other children, not friends, just people who were right out in the sticks & needed to go where she was taking us. When mine were small too, we had a system of lifts to get them to nursery.There are ways & means of getting around (pony & bike too for socialising) without parents driving, even in the depths of the countryside.