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What made you fall in love with your OH?

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Greenfinch Wed 05-Aug-26 09:50:03

I met DH when I was a student on teaching practice at a school where he was teaching. I had some very difficult classes and he took me under his wing. He is my rock and today we celebrate our 54th wedding anniversary.

Marg75 Wed 05-Aug-26 08:47:59

Gran22boys That rings true with me as well.
pably15 Uncanny!

Gran22boys Wed 05-Aug-26 08:14:32

His immense kindness and devotion.

ginny Wed 05-Aug-26 08:12:40

No idea but we are still happily together after 56 years ( 50 married).

M0nica Wed 05-Aug-26 08:01:04

Here is the unromantic story. We met at the university sailing club sometime in our first year, neither of us have any memory of it.

We went our separate ways when we graduated, but a group of us used to meet up at the boat show each year. DH had bought his own dinghy, but needed a regular crew and I volunteered, as we both lived and worked in London, It gave me an opportunity to sail again.

After 18 months of being shouted at, sworn at and blamed for everything that went wrong, any dinghy sailor will recognise the behaviour, I decided that I had seen worst of him and could handle it, so I shed my previous romantic interest and we got married and 58 years later, I have had no real reason for regretting my decision.

Greenfinch Wed 05-Aug-26 07:36:50

How romantic Aldom. I’m glad it all turned out so well. Other lovely stories on here too. Good to read them.

Aldom Wed 05-Aug-26 06:32:59

Grumps 🌹

pably15 Tue 04-Aug-26 23:05:49

oh grumpa,that's so sad, but I bet you have lots of lovely memories.

grumppa Tue 04-Aug-26 22:14:00

She was a gorgeous redhead, and when she dumped her boyfriend, who played in the same front row of the scrum as me at our local rugby club, I moved quickly. We clicked, and were married in just under a year from our first date. Our golden wedding was followed all too soon by her dying.

LucyAnna5 Tue 04-Aug-26 21:28:25

I loved (and still do) his sense of humour! We have such fun together - 54 years so far 👍

eddiecat78 Tue 04-Aug-26 20:40:56

No idea - it was a coup de foudre

srn63 Tue 04-Aug-26 20:22:09

He made me laugh so much, still together, lived together 5 years, married 45 years.

loopyloo Tue 04-Aug-26 20:18:46

My DH said on our first date "wither thou goest, I will go"
It struck a chord.
Still together after 51 years.

Aldom Tue 04-Aug-26 20:16:38

Chemistry! Many years before I formally met my future husband we had a chance encounter as total strangers. I had a problem with my car and this stranger helped me. I never forgot him. Years passed and I attended a forum and the speaker made a deep and lasting impression on me. Eventually the 'speaker' and I met socially and it was love at first sight. After getting to know him I realised he was the man who years before had helped me with the car problem.... Which was odd because that really wasn't his thing. So definitely chemistry with a dose of fate thrown in. We were extremely happy.

kittylester Tue 04-Aug-26 20:12:59

We were in lust, we married 10 months after we met. Love grew - 56 years later we are still together, each other's best friends and soul mates. We have had lots of challenges, ups and downs, but are still here.

Tuliptree Tue 04-Aug-26 20:05:22

Early on in our relationship, he came to stay for the weekend. It was when it was usual for you to fit your own plugs on appliances. He spotted my hairdryer on the floor with a badly fitted plug - I came into the room and saw him kneeling on the floor refitting it so I’d be safe. That was it. I knew he was the one.

greyfur Tue 04-Aug-26 19:59:24

Hair and teeth.

pably15 Tue 04-Aug-26 19:51:31

Marge 75, how uncanny I was 17, OH was 20,he was on leave from the navy .he made me feel protected and I would trust him with my life and we.ve been married 58 years too

Marg75 Tue 04-Aug-26 14:20:13

There's a thread called 'what made you fall in love with comedy' so I thought I would start this one.

I fell in love at 21, he was back and forth from his seagoing career. When we got together, I was immediately at ease with him, and he felt like one of my best friends that I could talk to about anything. We just knew that we would marry and make a life together. We must have been right, we're still together 58 years later.