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Cossy Wed 05-Aug-26 16:37:53

Yesterday my daughter and daughter-in-law were busy grumbling about how slow their first house purchase is taking and wishing it would speed up as they signed their contract 5 weeks ago.

Today my sweet DiL, who’s carry DD baby went into spontaneous labour and after waters broke and baby was upside down with umbilical cord separating, she had an emergency C section and then at 13:00 baby Henry was born at 24.9 weeks, weighing 1lb 6oz.

We are all hoping for a good outcome in the end, please pray to whatever God or spiritual being or keep your fingers crossed that baby Henry comes through this.

DD and DiL in shock and baby about to be transferred to a Neonatal Unit in a hospital nearly 40 miles away. This is their first baby and first try at IVF. He’s so tiny (I couldn’t see him but DD sent photos) 😢

LauraNorderr Fri 14-Aug-26 14:28:54

Saying prayers to one God and all Gods for little Henry, his Mummies and you Cossy.

Grannybags Fri 14-Aug-26 15:05:12

Sounds like more positive news from you Cossy 🤞

JaneJudge Fri 14-Aug-26 15:11:18

Cossy, I'm glad they're doing all they can for Henry smile he sounds a little fighter xx

Moth62 Fri 14-Aug-26 15:22:03

Thank you for updating us. I check on here often to see how Henry is getting on. It never ceases to amaze me the strength that even the tiniest babies have. My prayers are with wee baby Henry and his family and all the wonderful NHS staff who are doing their best for Henry and for you all. Xxx

Galaxy Fri 14-Aug-26 15:24:56

Oh cossy it sounds like he is getting such good care. Remember to look after yourself too.

Whitewavemark2 Fri 14-Aug-26 15:30:21

Good to read the latest news, and I fully expect to hear how he is improving day by day in your next bulletin.

Dear little soul.

ferry23 Fri 14-Aug-26 16:09:38

Oh well done little Henry! What a strong little mite you have Cossy. Baby steps.

Usedtobeblonde Fri 14-Aug-26 16:11:26

One day at a time Cossy warmest good wishes to you all.

V3ra Fri 14-Aug-26 16:44:49

Henry's situation and treatment is truly humbling to read, thank you for sharing it with us all.

Incidentally I hope the house purchase is proceeding ok 🤞🏻

latedecember1963 Fri 14-Aug-26 17:23:06

Thank you for taking the time to give an update, Cossy. 🕯😘🙏

JenniRen Fri 14-Aug-26 22:33:02

Thank you for the update Cossy and sending more positive vibes to Henry 🙏

And gratitude to all the wonderful staff at GOSH who care for all those babies and children with such dedication, day and night.

Cossy Sat 15-Aug-26 17:46:12

Update Saturday pm.

Just returned from GOSH and seeing baby Henry and his mummies.

Girls, who were really struggling, are so much more positive and less scared and my DiL looked so well today. Her milk is established, her “wound” is healing well and both of them looked like they were getting lots of sleep.

Baby Henry is stable, but very low red blood count so had another blood transfusion whilst I was there, we were allowed to stay and it seems pretty standard for a baby this premature.

Again, the standard of his care and the facilities at GOSH, along the sheer dedication of all staff is so impressive.

Baby Henry still hasn’t been able to show us his eyes, but each day his eyelids are less fused and the staff tell us it should only be 3-4 days now, his operation seems to have gone well, if it continues at this level he might be able to have some more of Mummy’s milk.

His nurses tell us, with joy, that he’s showing signs of “stroppiness” as he loathes his nappy or stoma being cleaned, and wiggles his tiny arms and legs in protest.

When my DD was encouraged to gently cradle his head yesterday, he immediately screwed up his little face, as if to say “get off”.

The other Mum’s family going tomorrow and her Mum (other granny), will give me an update.

DH, who hasn’t met his beautiful grandson yet, is coming with me on Monday night where he can meet Henry and we are then going to have supper with both girls.

Obvs, this assumes all carries on going well.

🤞🤞🙏🙏🩵

Again, thank you all for your kindness and compassion, and if you want me to, I’m happy to continue updating you all.

Bellanonna Sat 15-Aug-26 17:54:26

That was a very welcome and reassuring update, Cossy. Please do continue to let us know how things are.

Rosie51 Sat 15-Aug-26 17:55:29

Another positive update, thank you Cossy. Of course we want updates, we're very invested in little Henry 😊 xx

Ladyleftfieldlover Sat 15-Aug-26 17:57:43

A positive update for baby Henry.
Continuing to pray.🙏💐

SueDonim Sat 15-Aug-26 18:02:19

How lovely that tiny Henry is already making his preferences known! Lots more good wishes coming your way. Xx

Wyllow3 Sat 15-Aug-26 18:04:23

"When my DD was encouraged to gently cradle his head yesterday, he immediately screwed up his little face, as if to say “get off”"

or, "Oooooo, what's this?
Better puzzle it out, this here touch thingumajig"

Magenta8 Sat 15-Aug-26 18:15:46

You are till in my thoughts. I am glad things are going well.
Please keep going with the updates if you can. Loads of us on GN are wishing you and your family well.

GrannyGravy13 Sat 15-Aug-26 18:24:40

Sounds encouraging Cossy 🙏🏻

paddyann54 Sat 15-Aug-26 18:25:06

One of our special care nurses told us to treat it as a privilege to watch a tiny baby develope in ways that would not normally happen outside the womb.
Like your boy ,ours was very impatient regularly pulled out tubes and tried to lift his head off the mattress.
He was off oxygen b 4 weeks but still less than 3 pounds.
Take lots of photographs ,when you look back on Henry,s progress you,ll be amazed .We still are 38 years later.
Hoping for the best outcome for a much wanted wee boy.
Take care of yourself,you,ll be no use to this wee family if you dont.Love and best wishes to you all

ferry23 Sat 15-Aug-26 18:29:24

Thank you Cossy, please continue. Improvements that seem tiny are really massive at this stage.

It's sounding cautiously optimistic. Clearly he's not one for being messed about with. Long may he continue to show everyone who's the boss!

Excellent idea to take the girls to dinner - sometimes you just need a bit of "normal" to unwind a little, before immersing yourself in the situation again. I'm sure the support they're receiving from both families are helping them navigate this journey.

Grammaretto Sat 15-Aug-26 18:37:27

Thankyou Cossy for the update which sounds so positive.
Thinking of you all and praying for this little chap.

AGAA4 Sat 15-Aug-26 18:38:08

Please keep us updated Cossy little Henry is in my thoughts every day. Getting stroppy is probably a good sign. Showing he's not a boy to be messed with ☺️

merlotgran Sat 15-Aug-26 18:49:19

Just checking in and so happy to see another positive update, Cossy 🙏❤️🤞

MissAdventure Sat 15-Aug-26 18:52:21

Thank you, Cossy
All sounds cautiously good, long may it continue.
Looking forward to when he can have his mum's milk again.