Impatient son in farm shop

Luckygirl3

Part of my job was dealing with elder abuse. Seen some dreadful stuff.

I think you can infer some things from what you see - especially if you’re experienced like you are. And whatever difficulties there might be, he should treat her with respect in public

Part of my job was dealing with elder abuse. Seen some dreadful stuff.

But if he's like that to her in public ......

I must admit I won’t shop with my DH as he is always when he’s with me asking me why I want this or that. I hate having to explain meal plans in the middle of a shop.

You don't know the whole picture by seeing a just one frame

I agree with merlotgran

Crikey, talk about judgemental..

Fallingstar I know that situation. When my AC and their families all get together, I totally feel like a spare part as regards conversation, including in my own house when I have bought and cooked the meal.
I suppose I should feel glad that they enjoy seeing each other and that they come to my house.

Fair comment. But it was not a pretty sight ...

That man may have been at the end of his tether. You don’t know the background.

My late mother would sometimes run me ragged when out shopping. My two brothers lived two hours away so it was always me at her beck and call.

I don’t judge if I don’t know the facts.

This happens and it infuriates me too.
A while ago I saw a family group on the table next to ours at a restaurant. An elderly woman was sitting with what I presumed to be her grown up family and GCs. As they all ate they talked and laughed but never once spoke to the poor woman who just picked at her food. At one point I saw her try to get their attention and then the attention of a passing member of staff, but everyone ignored her. Eventually she just gave up and sat staring ahead.
I wouldn’t have been surprised if they all left the restaurant and left the elderly woman sitting there.
I felt like getting a megaphone from somewhere and handing it to the woman and telling her to just blast their ears off.

You'll have to tutor me in The Look!

You should have said , "if you want it, have it my love" in a nice gentle voice , while given him the evil eye. My DD says I can floor anyone with
"My Look"😡