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Slimswim Tue 01-Sept-26 19:27:14

A long story which I won’t go into but basically we downsized house a few years ago, not because we particularly wanted a smaller house but more because we relocated to a more expensive area. I hated the area we lived in before and love this area but I have several friends who have much larger houses in this area and every now and then I feel rather envious. I try and remind myself that a lot of people live in some awful houses Anyone else experienced this?

NotSpaghetti Sat 05-Sept-26 15:42:47

It took me a really long time to put a washbasin with hot water and a radiator in my tiny downstairs loo M0nica.

It was perfectly fine as it was - just colder and not so welcoming grinbut SO lovely afterwards.
It had been put off for maybe 15 years because of the route the hot pipes had to travel and the mess it was going to make.

I know you will be looking forward to the changes!

PamelaJ1 Sat 05-Sept-26 17:05:41

When I was growing up we lived in flats. Nice, big flats with the living areas totally separate from the bedrooms.
Now I live in a bungalow that is both very private (surrounded by a hedge) I can dance naked in the rain if I feel so inclined!
The big bonus is my bedrooms are down the hall so I can leave my bed unmade without visitors seeing what a slut I am. Just like our flats.
I just love it and although some friends have bigger and better and some have smaller I don’t want to swap with any of them.
That cottage by the gates in Hyde Park though. I’d be there in a flash!

Gwyllt Sat 05-Sept-26 17:10:20

The best way to be happy is to be content with what you have

NotSpaghetti Sat 05-Sept-26 18:29:02

I think we can be perfectly content and still admire other things and think "oh that would be nice".

Maybe I'm odd but I can the hold two thoughts/feelings true at once.

...Or maybe the "envy" word had been taken quite literally by some?