I don't think we have gone backwards at all, looking at the rights that we have now, but I think that some (many) men need to catch up, and some societies as well.
Also, we have come to realize that we cannot have it all, without compromising some things. We can't have the careers without giving up family time. Some women have a very supportive network to help, but others don't and sometimes that can hold us back.
It seems I hear so many young women complain that they do all the family support while partners expect them to earn a full time wage while still doing everything at home. Even if they are supportive, the women tend to have the mental load... the appointments, the family accounting, the holiday arranging etc.
We need to not only have the rights to more freedoms, but we need to teach the newer generations of men to accept and support these rights.