I watched Elf for the first time this year and thought that it was good. I'm not keen on Will Ferrell but quite a few people have said it is their favourite film so I thought I would give it a try.
The whole point of the shower scene was that he did not realise that it was not acceptable. Baby its Cold Outside was a lot less creepy than the video in the original film when the man keeps grabbing her arm and physically restraining her even if not aggressively. If you listen to the song without the video it just seems flirty to me.
I'm not really a American ones that are on daytime TV at the moment.
Things you find stressful that other people don't notice.