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Gran who charges for Christmas lunch

(117 Posts)
TerriBull Wed 20-Dec-23 16:51:56

It's up to her everyone's circumstances are different. Personally I wouldn't, when I entertain I like to lay everything on, although always happy if people want to bring whatever, and they often do.

Theexwife Wed 20-Dec-23 16:50:32

I assume the family is happy to pay and go there or they would host it themselves or not do it at all.

henetha Wed 20-Dec-23 16:38:40

Whether it's right or wrong, I only know that I just could not do it. I would feel terrible about charging my family.
Maybe she has good reasons, who knows.

Blossoming Wed 20-Dec-23 16:34:50

Having read the full article I think it’s a great idea for everyone to chip in. She’s feeding them on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day and Boxing Day. It sounds like a good spread and they all seem to be enjoying themselves in the accompanying photo.

HousePlantQueen Wed 20-Dec-23 16:26:48

If the wine is included she would be running at a loss if I was invited.

Freya5 Wed 20-Dec-23 16:22:52

Wonder why her family don't host her.?

Sallywally1 Wed 20-Dec-23 15:34:08

As someone says, why is this newsworthy! Slow news day?

Parsley3 Wed 20-Dec-23 15:33:50

Why is this news and why is this woman giving interviews to the media? 15 minutes of fame?

AreWeThereYet Wed 20-Dec-23 15:30:35

Maybe the family are happy to pay? They may enjoy their dinner with family and it's probably a lot cheaper than the family eating out. As someone else said, it's the equivalent of each of them taking something to the feast. It doesn't sound as if she's making money off it, just splitting the cost. Which may have been agreed by the family so they can all be together without one person paying for it all. Plus they don't have to do anything at all towards their big meal.

silverlining48 Wed 20-Dec-23 15:27:26

Thanks Ailsa. I think contributing £10 for food for 3 full days is a bargain. In fact £10 just for Christmas dinner is not too much.
Mercenary? I don’t think so. No one is being forced.

BlueBelle Wed 20-Dec-23 15:25:38

How can you charge grandkids for their dinner for goodness sake, what a tight wad
Save up all year or buy an extra item each week or put a few pounds away each week /month or don’t do a Christmas dinner at all but to charge your own family especially children is totally unacceptable really really horrible in my mind

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 20-Dec-23 15:17:49

Mercenary.

Ailsa43 Wed 20-Dec-23 15:11:08

A grandmother who charged her family for Christmas dinner last year has raised her prices for 2023.

Caroline Duddridge, 63, previously made her adult relatives pay up to £15, while her youngest grandchildren got a £2.50 bill each.

But this December it has gone up to cover the increased cost of living and rising food prices.

Caroline, from Fairwater in Cardiff, described a general food shop in the current climate as "just horrifying".

She first got the idea to make guests fork out for her turkey dinner when her husband died in 2015.

She even tells her loved ones to transfer the money straight into her bank account, because it is easier to "keep track of any stragglers".

In 2022, her two sons were charged £15, her three daughters £10, her four grandchildren over five £5 and her two three-year-old grandchildren £2.50.

Her sons were levied more because they are full-time workers, while her daughters who work part-time also have families.

Yuletide 2023 will be slightly different though, she revealed.

"I have put the girls' prices up (this year) by £2 because I did get a bit of stick from people saying I was being sexist - not that I listen to public opinion, particularly," said Caroline.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-wales-67770982

silverlining48 Wed 20-Dec-23 15:11:05

There is contributing/ splitting the cost and charging both can come to the same thing just different way of putting it.
Not enough information and why would the bbc report this anyway.

Chestnut Wed 20-Dec-23 15:04:29

I wouldn't judge anyone without knowing the full story which has not been posted here. We don't know whether she is struggling financially and has lots of family and maybe can't afford a £200 grocery bill. In certain circumstances it might be necessary to charge, who knows?

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 20-Dec-23 15:03:12

How mean. If she can’t afford to host she shouldn’t be issuing invitations.

Sallywally1 Wed 20-Dec-23 14:58:11

As title. This was a news item on the BBC and I must say I think it is a bit mean. Fair enough to ask people to bring certain items, but not to charge her own family. I would give anything to just have my children round the dinner table ! She is so lucky to have them all with her.