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Are you sending Christmas cards this year?

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ExDancer Fri 10-Oct-25 11:51:39

Just that ....

Ilovecheese Sat 11-Oct-25 17:20:13

I will still send cards, but agree that the cost of postage is really high. Privatisation again, don't ever tell me it makes a business better for the customer.

grumppa Sat 11-Oct-25 17:33:41

Yes, but the number dwindles.

Nannyflea Fri 05-Dec-25 09:50:58

If the Royal Mail was able to bring out special Christmas stamps in say the first two weeks of December, purely for posting only in December, and they was reduced to half price of a normal cost, and all proceeds went to charity, I’m sure all of us would gladly send more cards to all friends and family…for a lot of us, we can’t afford to send everyone a card because of the postage! Don’t know how difficult this would be for Royal Mail to do, but it would benefit us with Christmas cheer sending cards and helping a charity!

Bellasnana Fri 05-Dec-25 10:02:51

No. I stopped sending them ten years ago when my husband died and I couldn’t face signing just my own name.

CariadAgain Fri 05-Dec-25 10:03:25

Must admit I've not got round to doing any yet - which is unusual for me...but I'm going more in that direction over time.

Partly - yep people are sending less. Partly it's an experience that has "got old" as I've got older myself. Though it's true that getting older brings a lot of "I've done that before 100 times", "I've done that before 5,000 times" and one gets a bit bored with repeating an experience for the umpteenth time.

Astitchintime Fri 05-Dec-25 10:05:50

Bellasnana

No. I stopped sending them ten years ago when my husband died and I couldn’t face signing just my own name.

💐💐 For you Bellasnana.

henetha Fri 05-Dec-25 11:02:16

Yes, just a few. The list has grown smaller and smaller due to old friends dying, me cutting down due to costs, etc.
But some people do look forward to them so I will keep going.

Norah Fri 05-Dec-25 13:37:55

No, we hand deliver.

Babs03 Fri 05-Dec-25 14:14:33

No.
Will send to neighbours but are giving the rest a miss, only get a small number anyway. And have too much on my plate this year to
do Christmas.

Grannycool52 Fri 05-Dec-25 14:49:23

Only doing 10 this year, to those who I know will send to me. Not posting yet, though.

BlueBelle Fri 05-Dec-25 14:56:50

I love sending and getting cards but I m cutting right down this year There’s no point in wishing someone a happy Christmas if you never speak any other time so it’s going, much to my sorrow, itwas the best part of Christmas for me 😭

crazyH Fri 05-Dec-25 15:10:52

Yes, for all the neighbours, but no, not for those that need postage stamps.
Most of my old friends live abroad, and I am in touch with most, by WhatsApp and FB. It won’t be any different at Christmas time.
Postage is too expensive 😫

Wyllow3 Fri 05-Dec-25 15:22:23

merlotgran

Blimey!
I thought you were putting that as a Christmas greeting in your cards! 😂

😳😳😳

Don't apologise, best smile of the day, laugh out loud moment.

I don't begrudge the cost of the stamp at all. For goodness sake, 87p to greet a few old friends? (I've sent maybe 16 to old friends, a few to family, the newsy letter just to a few non family dear friends for a real catch up.

Wyllow3 Fri 05-Dec-25 15:23:54

Oh and the little group of regular neighbours, but they don't cost a stamp. I did them early and. enjoyed it not being pressured then posted them a few days ago.

Primrose53 Fri 05-Dec-25 15:50:27

No. haven’t done so for several years. When my Mum died I sent a donation instead to Alzheimers UK. Did that until my husband had a stroke last year and then changed donation to Stroke Association. This year it will be Pancreatic Cancer UK as my son is undergoing chemo soon following major surgery. I have already given them a donation as they are fantastic.

TerriBull Fri 05-Dec-25 16:00:16

We've just sent off our foreign ones, I imagine they're all going to be too late to arrive before Christmas. Will get round to our much diminished home grown list later next week, like many people we're in two minds whether to keep it going and increasingly more people are sending ecards now. I think there are some we send to who definitely do like the physical card, so we reciprocate. I do like getting ones full of news though, well good news that is.

I do think it will die a bit with each successive year, it's not something that resonates so much with the younger generation, plus the ever rising costs of stamps will eventually kill it off.

fancyflowers Fri 05-Dec-25 16:12:33

I enjoy sending and receiving them, but like other posters, our list gets shorter every year.

lixy Fri 05-Dec-25 16:14:29

Yes, to family we won’t see and distant friends.

We have moved to a close where people exchange cards. I haven’t been used to doing this but will join in with the community feeling.
For me a card is for someone you won’t see; neighbours I will see to wish a merry Christmas during Christmas week.

JamesandJon33 Fri 05-Dec-25 16:41:58

20 to hand deliver, 20 in the post yesterday. All done

Witzend Fri 05-Dec-25 16:49:56

Yes, all mine, inc. several for overseas, done and posted yesterday.
There are still several that dh needs to do, but he always leaves it so late….
I do like receiving them - they form part of our decorations, blu tacked to various vertical painted surfaces.

foxie48 Fri 05-Dec-25 17:57:44

I've made a few cards to give to my art class friends and I send a few to friends who I see very infrequently. I send a contribution to "Crisis at Christmas" every year instead of sending lots of cards and post on FB with something original, over the years I've put up all sorts of things from a short vid of a robin taking food from my hand, a Christmas poem, a Christmas painting etc. tbh I'm a bit stuck for ideas this year!

Jane43 Fri 05-Dec-25 18:01:26

Yes but it’s very sad to look at the list and see how many friends and family have gone, my oldest friend died last April.

butterandjam Fri 05-Dec-25 18:05:11

Yes I do, but it's an ever decreasing number (sent and received) as old friends die off or economise on stamps. You know how it goes. For decades, Doreen and Stan who were next door neighbours in 1974 send Happy Christmas with love and their year condensed into 20 scribbly words . Writing gets harder to decipher every year (unless you got your cataracts done). Then a card comes signed Doreen with her new address because after Stan died she moved closer to the kids. Then one year, nothing from her.

If Doreen dies first you don't find out . Stan doesn't send Christmas cards because he doesn't know where she kept the list.

Eventually you no longer know any people with oldie names like Doreen, Stan, Audrey and Barry.

We used to send and receive 40 -ish. I think this year will be single numbers.

DamaskRose Fri 05-Dec-25 18:07:51

I love receiving cards at Christmas but like others my list is getting shorter, partly because there seems no point in sending to people I never see during the year and partly because some friends have died. I don’t begrudge the postage or the cost of the card.

BlueBelle Fri 05-Dec-25 18:17:53

Like everyone here I used to get about 50 cards if I get a dozen or 15 this year I ll be surprised many have died many have lost touch seems no point very very very sad