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Shave or not to shave? I’m as nature intended. Do you go Brazilian, have a landing strip or let it all hang out.

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hollysteers Sun 26-Jan-20 14:15:44

Shave or not to shave? After ladygarden thread, do you go Brazilian, landing strip
or let it all hang out?
I’m as nature intended, plus I’m too lazy. Hair gets thinner too everywhere as time goes by, even grey down there! One can touch it up with a dab of mascara if it’s going to be seen?

JacquiG Wed 29-Jan-20 12:26:40

Weren't some female Olympic cyclists recommended to keep their hair on after they suffered abrasions and infections from the saddles they use? It worked, it seems.

SirChenjin Wed 29-Jan-20 12:43:58

Hear hear Greeneyedgirl. Women need to stop criticising other women’s appearances and focus on what they’ve achieved and their intellectual capabilities as opposed to their hair.

Deedaa Wed 29-Jan-20 14:58:45

In the 70s the two worst things about having a baby were the enema and the shaving. I was so glad when I had my second baby to find that they'd stopped the shaving.
Of course one thing that was different when we were young was that we weren't endlessly taking selfies in skimpy underwear so no one knew if we were hairy or not

SirChenjin Wed 29-Jan-20 15:36:17

My daughter is young and doesn’t endlessly taking selfies in skimpy underwear and neither are her friends. It’s not nice to tar young women (and men) with the same brush.

Wasn’t it your generation who invented the bikini, hot pants and the mini skirt? wink

SirChenjin Wed 29-Jan-20 15:37:08

That invented

SirChenjin Wed 29-Jan-20 15:39:12

Who/that/which/something else?! confused

Chestnut Wed 29-Jan-20 17:17:37

I don't think Deedaa accused everyone or anyone of endlessly taking selfies, did she? She just said that her generation didn't do that.

hollysteers Wed 29-Jan-20 17:45:29

Regarding Mary Beard’s appearance, it’s nothing to do with her sex. I would say the same about a wild haired professor on TV; most people making a public performance neaten up somewhat and I bet she is getting well paid for it.
One of my friends who is on Tinder (aaargh) doesn’t shave and said one man she met said he was put off by her Brillo pad!!!
The cheek?

hollysteers Wed 29-Jan-20 17:48:29

I meant I would say the same about a wild haired MALE Professor.

Evie64 Wed 29-Jan-20 18:15:26

Well mine seems to have pretty much gone missing since I had my hysterectomy. I think it got frightened off apart from a few grey straggly bits sad. However, my opinion is that it's been promoted by the porn industry and can't help but think it's a bit paedo?

SirChenjin Wed 29-Jan-20 18:24:39

My daughter’s generation isn’t endlessly taking selfies in skimpy underwear either Chestnut, which was what was implied -it’s not helpful to make sweeping derogatory generalisations about one particular generation imo.

Milo27 Wed 29-Jan-20 19:40:25

As a beauty therapist of nearly forty years, I have seen it all!! I wax mine and have done for a very very long time but each to their own! Love the mascara post smile

Granny23 Wed 29-Jan-20 19:41:09

I'm another whose hirsute growth has slowly vanished, leaving a few white wisps which are barely noticeable. I too was totally shaved for first birth {shock} but not for second grin. I had a two piece swimsuit with the bottom like a pair of short shorts so need for anything bar a slight trim to stay decent.

PamGeo Thu 30-Jan-20 14:24:32

I've always had fine hair so nothing too 'hairy mary' going on anywhere but I've always kept everything trimmed and tidy. My mother was horrified when I plucked my eyebrows never mind shaving armpits, legs and bikini line shock

I do it because it feels comfy, not because of pressure from anyone else and I've never been brave enough to wax off blush

Deedaa Thu 30-Jan-20 17:30:16

SirChenjin the bikini had already been invented and we only wore them on the beach. They weren't terribly revealing either. If hot pants or mini skirts revealed anything it was usually rather sensible knickers.

SirChenjin Thu 30-Jan-20 18:16:20

And I’m sure all of these garments shocked the older generation of the time - just as the ‘endless selfies in skimpy underwear’ is thrown at the younger generation and frowned on by some.

TwinLolly Fri 31-Jan-20 13:31:02

Mine has been on and off... In the beginning I would tidy up the bushy sprawl outside my swimsuit or bikini but shaving caused the area to itch. So I tried waxing or epilady (an electric epilator that whips it off (ouch!). It does the job.

In my later years I tried to shave the bush off but ended up with ingrown hairs, a rash and terrible itching. I got fed up and used the epilator on it. Yikes, It hurt!confused Maybe a salon giving me a wax would be better.

Hubby prefers no hair on himself - he finds it all gets very itchy and uncomfortable.

Everyone to their own, however this is an interesting and funny thread.

TwinLolly Sun 02-Feb-20 07:00:11

This picture I found on the internet says it all!

Greeneyedgirl Sun 02-Feb-20 17:21:41

Brilliant TL.