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MetteGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 19-Sept-16 12:35:33

To celebrate the publication of Alfie and His Very Best Friend, we're giving away a blue Mini Microscooter plus a bundle of Alfie books, including the latest book.

Alfie and Bernard are very best friends and together they have lots of adventures. Join them as they go to the library, take part in scooter races and make a very special club with only two special members! A heart-warming tale of friendship by the award-winning Shirley Hughes, creator of Dogger.

Shirley Hughes has won the Other Award, the Eleanor Farjeon Award, and the Kate Greenaway Medal for Illustration twice, for Dogger in 1977 and for Ella's Big Chance in 2003. In 2007 Dogger was voted the public's favourite Greenaway winner of all time. Shirley received an OBE in 1999 for services to Children's Literature, and is the first recipient of Booktrust's Lifetime Achievement Award.

To be in with a chance to win a blue Mini Microscooter and a bundle of Alfie books including Alfie and His Very Best Friend, tell us what are your top tips for helping your grandchild to make friends?

Post your entry below by midday Wednesday 12 October. Can't wait? You can purchase your copy of Alfie and His Very Best Friend on Amazon.

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clairesen Thu 29-Sept-16 14:28:08

Build their confidence and let them see you interacting with others. They'll pick up on how you are socially and follow suit, even if it's just at the shops or at a cafe.
Baby groups do help children to mix with others of the same age and teach them how to play in harmony. Sometimes there are clashes but I do believe it's the best way for children to learn.

huggiebear Thu 29-Sept-16 16:33:01

Taking grandson out to the park, soft play centre etc where there are lots of other children. Also having other children visit us at home and vice versa

gaynorlew Thu 29-Sept-16 17:55:34

Have Family Get Togethers and invite all their cousins over - guaranteed chaos but they have great fun all together and they see the adults chatting away so follow the example x

robyn297 Thu 29-Sept-16 20:48:49

I think its important to teach them empathy and thoughful of other childrens feelings. When we take Josh out, we encourage him to play with children who might be being left out.

GrannyGlyn Fri 30-Sept-16 18:14:30

Teaching them to share their toys and be kind to others.

Hanliying Fri 30-Sept-16 22:19:17

encourage them to join group activities and team sports

grandmac Fri 30-Sept-16 22:33:45

My DD taught my DGD to introduce herself to new children and although only 3 she seems to have a lot of friends at nursery. She has always been taken to toddler groups so maybe that is why she is very chatty and sociable. Supervised play dates are another way to get children together.

Nanalou Sat 01-Oct-16 09:43:29

Mixing with other children from an early age, encourage them to join in with others, talk to them about their friends.

hulahoop Sat 01-Oct-16 10:35:31

Let them be themselves but show how good it is to make freinds by mixing with others reading stories about children and freinds but most of all encourage but don't push they will make freinds at their own pace .

sallie Sun 02-Oct-16 17:04:52

has not been a problem so far,daisy seems to attract nice people

mumandnan Sun 02-Oct-16 18:45:45

I take my grand-daughter to parks, farms, soft play centres etc. and more often than not she will pair up with another child or children. If they go to places where there are other children, they naturally gravitate to each other.

trisher Mon 03-Oct-16 10:47:57

Let them mix with other children and then stay out of it unless there is real physical bullying. Part of having a friend is the falling out and the making up.

cathisherwood Mon 03-Oct-16 14:02:07

Don't interfere too much - making friends takes time and is not the same as playing together nicely. Just make sure the children your child mixes with are people you'd like them to be friends with

auntyann Mon 03-Oct-16 22:00:44

Sleepovers & chidrens birthday parties are a good way of making new friends1

Barb5 Mon 03-Oct-16 22:09:33

Playing games where children need to help one another or inviting children round and baking together.

sylwright Tue 04-Oct-16 16:02:35

I think if the parents socialise with other families then the children find it easy to make friends. They won't like every other child they meet and thats OK, don't push their relationships, let them make them themselves and they will automatically attract children they like and get along with.

Harebell Tue 04-Oct-16 19:34:31

When my grandchildren are a bit reluctant to join in and play then I choose an activity I know they enjoy and start playing and sharing / chatting quietly with the other children. Very soon my grandchildren will start to join in too.

hare Tue 04-Oct-16 20:04:22

take them to toddler groups

anniesk Wed 05-Oct-16 08:50:45

Always be willing to share in activities and toys!

fourormore Wed 05-Oct-16 11:11:49

Our granddaughters (5 and 6yrs) are sociable and good mixers anyway because of all the playgroups, nurseries etc available these days. However, I feel it equally important that they learn to value our friendships too.
We have two elderly neighbours - one 86yrs of age and the other a mere 81yrs of age. Our little ones visit them when we are on 'childcare' duties and appreciate them as Grandma's friends.
The 'oldies' love seeing the girls and the youngsters get to respect and acknowledge that there is an older generation who can be their friends too.

simone1 Wed 05-Oct-16 17:10:29

l USED TO FIND MY CHILDREN JUST ONE NICE LITTLE GIRL TO COME HOME AND PLAY AND NOW MY DAUGHTERS DOING THE SAME FOR MY GRANDAUGHTER AS ITS A GREAT WAY TO MAKE A GOOD FRIEND FOR THEM FOR SCHOOL

ammaline Thu 06-Oct-16 10:53:01

Take them to lots of places - playgroups, parks, soft play etc - where they can meet other children, and don't interfere too much!

bikerbill Thu 06-Oct-16 20:42:45

I always praise my children when they do something good so they gain confidence and I find they are confident to chat to other children when we are at the park etc.

lydiag123 Thu 06-Oct-16 20:47:26

I took my grandson to a toddler group at the school he was due to start nursery at he made friends with those children which made the first day of school less scary and he seems to of stuck with them

leanfun Fri 07-Oct-16 09:17:32

Going to playgroups and events in libraries. If they hear you chatting to other parents and children they often join in.