Typical! I just remember the extra special things of my best summer, only to find the competition closes today!
DS and family took me with them to a villa in Spain. An area I'd visited before but not with my own family, especially DGS. We felt there was something not quite right but he hadn't yet been diagnosed as being on the autism spectrum, and we were all carefree and telling ourselves he was really ok, that we were just expecting too much. We had a fabulous time, not too touristy, beautiful beaches as well as on-site pool. He blossomed being just with the most important people in his life (although I'm embarrassed saying that) but there were no nursery workers or other children making demands on him, or neighbours being sniffy - just DGS, his parents and me, grandma. We all really got on - I hadn't thought I'd ever be a grandma but then DS met THE ONE and this was the first time we'd been away together. DDIL had a special birthday while we were there and everything in the garden was rosy. The memories of that trip, including getting scarily, hopelessly lost in Paris on the way back, have sustained us all in the intervening years. I thought I knew but the special times then and since have taught me what love is.