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NatashaGransnet (GNHQ) Fri 17-Apr-20 10:30:29

To celebrate the release of The Switch by Beth O'Leary we're giving one lucky gransnetter the chance to win a £150 Waterstones voucher, along with a copy of the book. We're also giving two runners-up £50 worth of Waterstones vouchers each as well as a copy of the book.

More details on the prize can be found HERE and T&Cs HERE. We will pick a winner after 11am on 23rd May.

To enter simply tell us... How important is it for people of all ages to feel connected to their community?

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Dannydog1 Sat 16-May-20 20:09:36

Especially now where I live it has become very evident how important it is for all ages- we are helping each other in practical ways and with mental wellbeing. Adults and children are helping each other and appreciating the needs and strengths of each other

marymod Sat 16-May-20 21:59:58

I think it's very important as people of all ages have different skills and experience to offer. Where I lived, people already knew each other, but the current situation has brought us much closer and made us more aware of each others' positions and needs. For example, I'm shielding, so some of my neighbours check that I have the essentials. We ensure that all age groups are included and made to feel valued and wanted.

Maria66 Sat 16-May-20 22:12:29

Reaching out to people is what makes life worth living “no man is an island” - so true. By sharing, we grow & learn & nurture & support each other. Not to mention give & take - eg we had too many bananas delivered (husband’s data input error.....) so gave them to various neighbours (left them on the doorstep) & in return one of the neighbours threw a bag of homegrown lettuce over the garden fence!!

annamattandlily Sat 16-May-20 22:38:00

completely important if you feel connected you feel safe loved worthwhile you enjoy where you live and the community you are in you all share something in common you all chose the same area road. It helps your mental wellbeing soar and keeps dis-ease at bay

pineapple99 Sat 16-May-20 23:46:21

It is very important - especially at the moment. We all need to look after and support each other and hope it will stay that way after things return to whatever becomes normal.

Rachelbblogger Sun 17-May-20 04:54:11

It’s so important to keep in contact with friends and family and to get together

humtum167 Sun 17-May-20 07:03:59

The current Crisis has seen people of all creed, colour & age come together in a very turbulent time.
However its important we don't forget this once this time has elapsed.

Keep safe everyone.

boxalllot Sun 17-May-20 10:00:59

It's human nature to be social so being connected with the community is essential. Everyone should feel wanted!

Angel379 Sun 17-May-20 10:35:12

It is really important that we look out for each other. It helps children learn to be kind and compassionate.

tinalist Sun 17-May-20 14:57:34

A community isn’t a community without all the different age groups, hence why communication is vital for everyone to sense their rightful place within it and to have a voice....

Mcdavidfan Sun 17-May-20 16:28:00

When we are forced apart, it’s our communal heart ♥️

Bevinju Sun 17-May-20 16:58:55

Regardless of this current pandemic .... people should treat others as they would like to be treated. Nobody knows what the future holds and you never know when you may need additional assistance / company. The lockdown has bought out more of our community support and I am hoping this continues as we moves towards the new normal way of life.

Some people have more than their far share of troubles, are lonely or ill. Appreciate what you have, and provide a friendly ear or offer help when and where you can.

If you are feeling down, count your blessings, and remember that there are often people in worst positions BUT don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it.

tashie5dug Sun 17-May-20 17:01:14

I think it increases in importance as you get older. Its not good for a persons mental health to feel isolated and alone at any age, though.

Floris Sun 17-May-20 19:23:38

It is very important, and I believe even more important now that we all stay connected, but not just family (which of course is very important) but also our friendships which should be nurtured and our neighbours, no matter who they are or where they come from - we can learn so much from them. Another reason is byu staying in touch we can help prevent isolation and loneliness and be there where help is needed so no one needs to fear asking for help when needed.

thrlrds2007 Sun 17-May-20 19:33:16

Really important especially at this serious time

quin0002 Sun 17-May-20 23:03:47

Being socially active and engaged in the community keeps you healthy - mentally and physically so it is extremely important.

Owllycrafter Sun 17-May-20 23:20:04

For me it is a bit important as then you have a sense of belonging the communities are not as big however we are now part of different ones. The work community, the school community and where you live the community there is important feeling we belong and connecting to people is vital to our well being

nanna123 Mon 18-May-20 10:20:53

A community can share ideas, values and love which will make them stronger and include everybody as each member has something to give and receive.

gil3 Mon 18-May-20 11:57:35

its very import we are lucky to live in a amazing village . the community are all helping each other and making sure every one has what they need to get through this together

NanaShug Mon 18-May-20 13:20:07

Being connected is vital...! There is so much that all ages can contribute to each other so don't write anyone off as too old or too young. My granddaughters come to me when they want to bake so we do it together and the satisfaction is double. On the other hand when I have a problem with my computer they face time me and talk me through till its sorted and our respect and love for each other goes through the roof...!

wildchild Mon 18-May-20 15:06:44

It's vital - you just don't know what may happen - they'll need help or you do - and it's nice to know who's coming to your aid!

ktmd Mon 18-May-20 15:32:29

A sense of community is vital for good mental health. We can all support each other and feel connected.

ileenann2 Mon 18-May-20 16:09:46

it takes two parents to make the child, a community to make the man /woman

alijm Mon 18-May-20 18:14:59

It is important to keep in touch with all ages, to promote good mental health and because there is so much we can learn from each other.

jscamb22 Mon 18-May-20 19:01:50

I think it's incredibly important. It matters not just for people who might otherwise be isolated but everyone. The more connected people feel to their community, the more positive action everyone is likely to take!