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To be honest my husband doesn't tend to get involved in my things, as they are usually boring things like meal planning and shopping. However, if I try to get involved in his DIY projects.... It usually ends in an exchange of words ?

I am single so am not really sure how I can answer this question! When it comes to family and friends, it is nice when we can do activities together.

big big arguments

we alwaysn share , its ours not mine and vice versa

I would welcome it, it's better to share. I am a designer and frequently ask his advice! So get him involved as much as possible!

Rarely happens. After almost 50 years he knows better!

We do most things together, he usually is better at me at a lot of things so always grateful for his help.

I value his input on most things that I do. I enjoy spending time with him.

I always welcome my partner getting involved in something which we could share

If it's a DIY job I feel I have 'ownership' of we can come to blows, especially if he starts getting bossy or patronising, but generally this doesn't happen - he has his jobs he doesn't mind (cooking, DIY, gardening) and I have mine (washing, hoovering, child stuff) and we are a great team!

Nothing as we share most things anyway

We share most things so I wouldn’t mind at all

It is generally more fun - we feel more of a partnership and enjoy doing things together

He does it wrong and I get very mad

I welcome us having more common interests

We share everything anyway and enjoy life together this way

I don't mind but he does tend to take over

It is always fine with me

One of the reasons I split with my last 'partner' as he didn't seem to want to share any of the menial tasks. He liked bbqs but not gardening for example. One day I said to him the garden doesnt do itself! He replied saying he thought I liked weeding!! So I weeded him out the door lol

I do not mind that much because we tend to share jobs round the house anyway.

We work great as a team and share lots of interests but we are always clear about who does what. For example, we share (my) allotment and both take great pleasure in it but there is an unspoken agreement that, I plant things and he digs.

It really depends what "stuff" he is poking about with and what he is doing with it - he has a tendency to throw anything away that isn't his "stuff"

I think it's great. Something to share and enjoy together.

If my husband expressed an interest in my hobbies of sewing and crochet I'd start to wonder if he was losing his marbles.

I humour him for a while, knowing full well he'll be bored with whatever it is soon anyway.