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NatashaGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 27-Apr-20 12:50:37

To celebrate the release of The Motion of the Body Through Space, the new novel by Lionel Shriver, we're giving one lucky gransnetter the chance to win a Fitbit Inspire HR and a copy of the book - together worth over £100. Five runners-up will also win a copy of the book.

More details on the prize can be found HERE and T&Cs HERE. We will pick a winner after 11am on 27th May.

To enter simply tell us... What happens when your partner gets involved in something you consider to be yours?

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marymod Sat 23-May-20 23:06:00

Depends on what it is and the level of involvement. In turn, I have felt almost elbowed out and other times welcomed the interest.

LJB70 Sat 23-May-20 23:16:02

I've only been with my current partner 6 months so we do share everything right now. I'm happy for him to get involved

Lisapaige24 Sat 23-May-20 23:54:11

I don’t mind because I know he will get bored sooner or later so I let him get it out of his system

Envelope Sun 24-May-20 03:26:57

When my partner takes up an interest I have had for a long time, they soon become an “expert” in whatever it is and start giving me helpful tips about how to do it better. I can find it annoying or just smile and agree.

madmum38 Sun 24-May-20 05:59:01

Would have liked him to get involved but he never wanted to

sylviagill1807 Sun 24-May-20 06:50:54

My Partner is very good at doing everything and I'm happy for him to be involved and helping in something I consider to be mine... he usually does a better job than me !

gillwill Sun 24-May-20 07:18:52

I am happy when my partner gets involved with something that is mine because it shows that he takes an interest in things I do. I am disappointed when he doesn't show interest.

VictoriaSt Sun 24-May-20 11:25:20

I like sharing with my partner so I let them join in in whatever is "mine"

bookmark77 Sun 24-May-20 14:10:01

Nothing really, we like to share.

bookmark58 Sun 24-May-20 15:42:11

I really don't mind, as long as it doesn't become theirs.

karenharrison Sun 24-May-20 16:51:15

He really doesn't. We have defined jobs that we've wroled out over the last 30 years and we stick to them.

thecatwhisper Sun 24-May-20 17:15:42

I don't have a partner so I can't react. If it was gardening I would hit the roof as I like being head gardener

shamusp Sun 24-May-20 19:43:58

no problem !

rmedley Sun 24-May-20 20:14:13

I would enjoy sharing the experience with him. We like to do things together so it would be a great thing.

Rustied Sun 24-May-20 21:48:29

I’m more than happy for my wife to get involved in any interests I have It’s our 25th wedding Anniversary this year and try as I have I still haven’t been successful in getting her involved in my love of gaming - I can but dream

cleggy Sun 24-May-20 21:57:02

I love gardening but my partner tries to help by pulling up my plants saying he thought it was a weed. He also tells me off for cutting the grass to often. I wish he would find his own hobby.

Jilly1967 Sun 24-May-20 22:36:17

I think there are some things that are shareable but I would only want to do that if it suited us both....encourage them to find their own niche too

goglyeyes Sun 24-May-20 23:33:09

There's nothing off limits for me. If he wants to get involved in my interests I don't mind. If he demanded it it however, or became pushy, we would have words. lol.

kazzabarbie Mon 25-May-20 08:37:23

Some of the time he takes over and I end up losing interest & let him get on with it.

laurenold Mon 25-May-20 08:46:39

I would be reasonably happy to share whatever it was

pamelacook Mon 25-May-20 09:56:14

It upsets me! I always feel that he thinks I cannot do it on my own and need help, whereas I feel I am perfectly capable. Sometimes I get grumpy with him though I do try not to.

Lesevans6 Mon 25-May-20 10:15:22

I would love my partner to get involved with something I believed was mine, as she has been dead since the 4th nov 1994

Northernandproud Mon 25-May-20 10:33:41

He always manages to do what activity it is, and usually better than me
I bought a sewing machine to learn to sew, so far i haven't learnt to thread it Mr Northern has made curtains, and home made face masks
I tried to make a macrame plant hanger mr Northern finished it
I just have to accept hes better at crafts than me

Lala12 Mon 25-May-20 11:12:03

It depends what it is, sometimes I might just leave him to it. But if he gets involved with something and then starts giving me advice and how he does it better or should be done I get very cross!

mbody Mon 25-May-20 11:21:29

Incredible amount of mess and an inability to find anything but he’s used afterwards.