I have nine grandchildren, all different and all with different educational aspirations and expectations. Two of the boys are challenged by dyslexia and dyspraxia and for them, home learning has been a struggle, despite the best efforts of their parents and grandparents. I started reading stories by video early in lockdown, but they wearied of that and so did I! They sent me a questions and answer 'quiz' about how life was for me as a child - that worked for all of us and reminded me of some happy and sad times. I think that it's become apparent to all the parents in my family that whilst they can and do their absolute best to school the children of our family it's not easy. Great respect for teachers in general has been observed!
As far as my own relationship with the grandchildren goes, I feel sad that certainly with the eldest (teenagers ) and youngest (who is three) ...despite the birthday Zooms and the odd conversation at my window, it feels as though I have 'faded' from their lives without anyone really noticing. I would love to see them in person and talk and hug them, but it feels as though they are moving on without me, in a way, almost as if I had died. They are of course always pleased to say hello virtually, but they certainly aren't missing me on a daily basis as much as I miss them! I'm glad in a way as I'd hate them to be feeling sad. I guess that whatever we face in our lives, most people learn to cope and keep moving forwards - especially the young, thankfully - as they are the future.