Just not doing it, will speak to children on phone, under the circumstances MD isn't really that important. Probably not going to have a get together at Easter either. Grandson's birthday follows on soon after that,usually I make a cake when he comes here soon after the actual day and we have a little family celebration whilst he opens his presents from this side of the family, but sadly won't be doing that either, hopefully postponed though. Life as we know it is on hold for everyone, it's no good getting hung up about missed celebrations. We have booked to go away for husband's birthday later in the year, not holding out much hope for that either, we just mentally have to let these things go and hope everyone comes through this terrible time.