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Rise of po-faced moralising?

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Hetty58 Tue 28-Apr-20 21:41:09

suziewoozie, unless geekesse comes back with sources, I think she imagined them. I never realised that washing a car was fun! I'm totally flummoxed and unaware of any criticism of park walkers/exercisers myself. It's a puzzle!

Grammaretto Tue 28-Apr-20 21:40:07

You did make me smile geekesse smile
I have been saying that it's OK to do almost anything as along as you don't look as if you are enjoying yourself. No fun. No sunbathing. No smiling or laughing.

let's hope it doesn't get more sinister than that. lemongrove

suziewoozie Tue 28-Apr-20 21:35:48

Well I clearly live in a different world - where on earth did you pick up these unsubstantiated incidents?

lemongrove Tue 28-Apr-20 21:32:56

I think you may well be right geekesse
To add to that, there have been cases of naming and shaming
On FB and neighbourhood sites of somebody who didn’t take part in the clapping for the NHS.What next, pitchforks and
Ducking stools?
Common sense must be applied to social distancing, and driving for ten minutes to go for a woodland walk is far better than walking the local streets.

notanan2 Tue 28-Apr-20 21:32:12

Oh some people are LOVING the rules!

I feel sorry for the police getting calls about someone walking 190cms away from others!

geekesse Tue 28-Apr-20 21:20:02

I’ve been following threads here and discussions elsewhere, and I’m seeing something rather curious. Whilst we are all required by law, common sense and care for others to follow lockdown rules meticulously, some people are turning it into a kind of moral crusade against any kind of pleasure. A couple of examples:

— Some TV doctor has said people should not wash cars, even on their own properties and observing social distancing. Now, assuming cars are on people’s own property, and those washing are observing social distancing, what possible reason can there be for making it morally wrong?

— There have been many who seem to think that it’s better to insist people take daily exercise tramping the streets instead of walking round a local park or wood, even if both are accessible on foot. Again, assuming social distancing is rigorously observed, I can see no virtue in walking round dull surroundings instead of lovely ones.

I have this theory that the pandemic makes people feel powerless. So they are starting to apply an irrational and medieval kind of superstition in their thinking which goes something like this: the pandemic is some kind of ‘punishment’ and to make it go away, everybody has to suffer and deprive themselves of all sources of pleasure as a penance. If everyone suffers enough, the virus will be driven away. I’m fascinated to observe how many people who reject traditional religion seem to fall into this pattern of thinking.

Goodness knows, life is hard enough for those who are fearful, lonely and frightened. I’d like to see us all wishing everyone what joy they can squeeze out of life just now, as long as they don’t put themselves or anyone else at risk of infection, and as long as they remain within the law.