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How are people living on their own coping?

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squirrelnutkins Sat 17-Oct-20 11:54:43

Yes FannyCornforth - I must remember that it's ok to feel rubbish sometimes. Thanks for reminding me.

FannyCornforth Sat 17-Oct-20 11:43:46

Brilliant attitude Beige.
I think that it helps if you accept that you are going to have rubbish days, wallow a bit and move on, rather than try to fight it.

lovebeigecardigans1955 Sat 17-Oct-20 11:35:29

Hello squirrel I'm coping by doing most of the things I usually do, except for getting a bus and going into town (Nottingham) - something I haven't done since the beginning of the year.

I don't have a very active social life but enjoyed a monthly sewing group which hasn't met since February. I've been out for lunch twice since lockdown and have met friends in a group of five just once. Visits to family are very much curtailed. I keep busy with my usual hobbies of reading, sewing and a bit of pottering about the house, for what else can we do? Not much.

I refuse to get depressed about it - I'm glad to be alive and can and do spend my time as I please within the guidelines. I count my blessings - I have the eyesight to pursue my hobbies and the wit to know what needs doing and to get on with things. On a bad day I may slump about for a bit then tell myself to jolly well get on things.

FannyCornforth Sat 17-Oct-20 11:25:26

Hi.
I don't live on my own (with DH) but my life is incredibly restricted due to several factors.
My motivation is very poor. There was a very lengthy thread all about motivation (that was its title) quite recently.
I'll see if I can find it, but advanced search doesn't work for me.

squirrelnutkins Sat 17-Oct-20 10:59:06

Hi. As a retired woman living on my own, I'd be interested to hear how others in the same situation are finding things at the moment.

I had quite an active life pre-covid and am managing to keep myself occupied as best I can but I have bad days when it's really difficult to get motivated. Does anybody else have this problem?