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Politics of fear and its side effects

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Riverwalk Fri 24-Dec-21 09:00:35

Yes very distressing for your husband if he thought he'd triggered her actions.

For future, to reduce potential stress for him could he wear a visor if it's medically possible.

JaneJudge Fri 24-Dec-21 08:59:52

I don't know what to say but it's Christmas and we're all in misery - Ellen Griswold

GagaJo Fri 24-Dec-21 08:59:52

From my viewpoint it is the opposite of politics of fear. It's lack of effective leadership.

We all have to make our own choices because our leaders don't have a safe response to a potentially deadly situation. I'm stricter than a lot of people I know. Some don't like it. I don't care. I'm responsible for trying to maintain my own health and I'm not being pushed into lowering the standards I'm comfortable with by others.

MerylStreep Fri 24-Dec-21 08:58:58

Monica
I think you might be aware of my opinions on this behaviour from some of my comments.
I despair of the damage that has been caused to some people which may possibly never be reversed.
The politics of fear are alive and well in the U.K, but they’re not working on me and mine.

Galaxy Fri 24-Dec-21 08:55:39

I said a very aggressive for gods sake to the man who rammed my trolley as if we were playing dodgems yesterday grin

Urmstongran Fri 24-Dec-21 08:54:29

I totally agree. There’s some very timid souls about. The SAGE modellers with their ‘worst case scenarios’ have a lot to answer for in my opinion. And as yet they’ve been way off. I don’t listen to Whitt’s, Vallance and Ferguson any more they are all too extreme. Bet Sturgeon and Drakeford regret their extreme measures now. If not them then their hospitality and sports industries certainly will. It’s madness.

JaneJudge Fri 24-Dec-21 08:52:59

I think galaxy has a fair point. I'm sorry it has upset your husband though. People do seem to be a bit more confrontational on the whole though at the moment, I have found. Though my husband spoke to someone in the butchers yesterday for going in through the wrong door and told him to use the correct entrance which is most unlike him...so there may be a thread about that (there were clear arrows and directions, why would people want to go in the wrong way?) Maybe we are all a bit confused about what we do and have to do? I think people are very much fuelled by adrenaline in uncommon situations too

Kim19 Fri 24-Dec-21 08:44:33

I agree, Monica. Some of my normally stable friends seem to be making strange lifestyle changes. I never query but simply comply with their wishes. Interesting (if sometimes a little sad) indeed.

Galaxy Fri 24-Dec-21 08:44:02

But you have no idea about this woman. In the same way she knew nothing about your husband. I know a couple of people with severe health anxiety and obviously covid becomes included in that, she may have had health anxiety rather than covid if you see what I mean. I am sure there will be mental health repercussions from the pandemic of course but it was a long queue and no one else behaved like that.

M0nica Fri 24-Dec-21 08:35:09

DH went down to the surgery yesterday to get his third jab. He has a medical examption from wearing a mask because of breathing difficulties

The queue started in the car park. He did have a mask, which he did struggle to wear inside as the surgery say it is manadatory and he knew some people would be vulnerable.

Anyway, he joined the queue outside, properly distanced. As he did so, a woman, several people down from him, looked round, saw him and began to hysterically scream 'I'm going to get COVID, I'm going to get COVID' and ran from the queue screaming and was seen no more, presumably she went back to her car and went home.

Needless to say DH found this very distressing. In fact he didn't tell me what had happened until yesterday evenng, even though it happened in the morning.

We have been told from the start that if you are outside and socially distanced masks are not necessary, so DH was doing nothing wrong, even if he wasn't medically exempt, and I really do worry about people like this lady. DH was abo, and they were outside

I think that the mental health effects of much of the fear tactics used to scare us are going to be very long lasting.