Doodle - how lovely. What variety of tree?
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We don't have all the answers but in the spirit of Doodle and Cherry who began it all, and with a happy lobster as our mascot, we do offer friendship and often a bit of very cheeky chat.
It’s an Alder. About 10 years old. It’s to replace another one that had to be cut down. I’ll post a picture if I can.
Your DH's tree sound a marvellous idea Doodle and something you can watch growing over the years. 
Look after yourself with that sore throat and don't risk going anywhere if you have a temperature.
My doctor has just given me those very same (quite strict) instructions as well,due to my damaged foot. If I felt hot or 'other-worldly' I had to contact her or, worst case, hospital.
She sent a nurse to dress my toes yesterday and she'll come back on Monday to do the same.
Meanwhile, I have to keep my foot dry, so no showering.
I'm not expecting visitors this weekend so I can be as stinky as I like
Jan16 How's your daughter?
Photos from Dubai show Gubbins with life-size ceramic camels in an hotel which looks like a sheik's palace. Gold, marble, crystal chandeliers everywhere.
They fly to London in 6 hours, DS is already there and will meet them at Heathrow.
Although the connection of penguins to Christmas is a bit vague (at least to me), I think I'm going to try and make these cuties for Tuesday, our last kaumatua group meeting until next year.
Evening All
I'm still here but I have been in the doldrums as happens at this time of year and after That Cold has left me with a hacking cough. And my shoulders, neck and back hurt. I think it's not been helped by sunset being around 4.00 pm. I've also had my beloved walnut tree chopped down. It's not flourishing since we had it crowned a few years back, and has been on the list for four or five years but Covid and DH becoming increasingly poorly put things off. But, there is a tiny shoot in the trunk about four feet above the ground which my incredible tree surgeons think will grow.
(I was going to say, having watched the main man swinging through the branches in all his gear with a large chain saw hanging from his belt, that they should consider making a calendar similar to the firemen. But having found our new home and read through so far, perhaps I'd better not!!
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Anyway, a good Christmas lunch with friends yesterday and a 'blow it, we're going out' walk to the sea at Titchwell today and I'm feeling much better and more positive. It was my first birding expedition on my own and was much better than I expected. We spent many happy times there. I thought I should make the most of a good day before the wind gets up. Kira has had a good walk, milk is bought, candles found and at least I don't have to worry about branches falling from the walnut tree! I hope everyone else in the Yellow Zone and especially any of you in the Red and Amber are all well battened down. And that your roof holds out Grammaretto!
Brilliant that the weather was good for you too Doodles for your tree planting. It was obviously meant to be. A lovely, lovely idea.
So pleased that your DD is home and close by Jan. Recovery is so much better when in your own nest. Especially with mum and dad close by.
Thank you for the photo of my favourite man Kaimoana. It's a lovely one. I'm wondering if I can manage to get him singing as a screen saver on the telly, he lifts my spirits. And your Gubbins is really grown so much and looks so confident. What happened to your DS with that perfect job is so cruel, but better he finds out now than later when they've all moved home.
And, Jeeves, please know we all love you. Plus Doodle and I really need your special hot chocolate to soothe our throats and help us sleep. With your magic powers I'm sure you can whip from one side of the country to the other in a blink of an eye, before the wind gets up. If you take Doodle hers first you'll have the wind behind you when you head Norfolk-wards. But I'm off to bed now so please don't leave it too late!
What a lovely spot Doodle. I like the penguins Kaimoana, and I hope Gubbins doesn't think this is her new life!
Good Morning 🫢
I've been down a rabbit hole of stuff that ended when Mr M and I returned to the UK on Friday from Latvia and we could finally warm up chill down.
A brief (!) resume of the last few months...best friend died tragically and suddenly after 65 years of friendship and I fell apart....and I didn't have the words to post. I then accepted a vast commission from Ancestry to help behind the scenes with a forthcoming DNA series. Mr M and I have been living out of suitcases for months and have been to some very off the beaten track places. My dusty documents and his lovely care have bolstered me and I am facing front again
Picture 1 is the unique and moving Hill of Crosses in Lithuania which we visited last week. It brought me peace and probably chillblains
I also attach a photo of Spud, the all singing, dancing talking genius who.......is moving to live near us! It seems likely that he will be an only child so his parents have decided that living amongst his wider family would give him a stronger bond with his cousins.
Kaimoana - This is the time when Gubbins will unknowingly pass Spud on the crowed UK streets.....in years to come they will meet properly and obv. marry......😍
the bored beans are getting a battering, looks set to be a good onion crop next year...and I have new gardening lady to help me. Much to Mr M's disappointment I still have the same cleaning lady who can't move things to dust - and who can't see dust - but she's reliable and never surprises me
I need to get my big Christmas pants on now as we're hosting the tribe again - it's great to be home!
Spud and Gubbins. Gubbins and Spud. It has a nice ring to it. They are obviously meant to be together.
*Welcome back, Mamissimo. It sounds like you've had a fantastic adventure. And you're to be involved with a DNA Ancestry thing? How interesting and intriguing.
I'm so sorry to hear about losing your best mate. After so long it's hard to take.*
So much has happened with you all since I last popped by.
Good to see Spud and his fiancée Gubbins I read that right didn't I?
I too at last understand why DS is travelling separately to his family Kaimoana.
Good luck to them all. You are about to publish another book too. Amazing!
I envy you your beachwalks Nfk. Blowing the cobwebs away .
I have an English helper who is enthusiastic about clearing the attic.
He's determined to take me at my word. Several trips to the dump already. Oxfam booked for Monday.
I managed a brief escape to make paper decorations this morning with a group at the community café.
I was so engrossed. I want to make all my own decorations now.
My washing machine gave up the ghost yesterday so I will have to buy a new one.
How interesting Mamissimo to be working for Ancestry and DNA!!
I had mine done but 2 DS say they never would give theirs.
I'm glad your DD is home and recovering Jan.
Welcome home Mamissimo! What adventures you've had, as well as heartache; none of it easy.
Gosh, Spud is quite grown up and gorgeous and like Gubbins, seems keen on cooking. 
Nice to have him back as well.
I am trying not to be anxious but all is not going smoothly with the flight(s) Gubbins is on.
To begin with, the flight (and thus the number and time) DS gave me, so I could track it, was changed.
So I was watching UAE 01 take off and Gubbins wasn't on it.
Overnight (my night) DS found out there were mechanical problems, so they deplaned and caught the next flight DBX to LHR which delayed them over 9 hours 
Then 3 aborted landings in London; DS is not sure why but speculates windspeed across the runway.
Now Gubbins an co are stuck in Frankfurt and waiting to be told how and when they can get to London.
They are with Emirates, so we are hoping well looked after.
DS of course was at Heathrow but now back at their hotel, having been awake since 2am. He'll have 2 hours notice when they eventually get a flight - but it may divert to Manchester even then. 
I'm telling myself all will be well and this is why planes don't have accidents because no one takes chances.
And on a totally unrelated note to cheer myself up a bit.
The remarkable Hikoi had, at its culmination 42,000 people in Wellington say the police but it's estimated another 20,000 took part, walking all downt he North Island and from the South for whatever time they could, to show their support.
Only one action by police was necessary over the whole 10 days: a redivist inebriate in Wellington tried to grope someone.
Forgive me all a really short post tonight. I feel dreadful in more ways than one. Very sore throat, headache, cough and heartache. *
I’ve been helping in church today and am really tired. I feel unwell and sorry for myself and on top of that I seem to have sunk into a dismal state. Hoping an early night and paracetamol will improve things.
Manmissimo lovely to have you back with us. So sorry about your friend. Little Spud is now big Spud. Lovely boy what a match with the gorgeous Gubbins
What an interesting thing to be involved in with the Ancestry DNA .
Big hugs to all and hopefully will be more responsive tomorrow. Today the Christmas festivities hit me hard on top of feeling ill.
Night night sleep tight
All's well. They landed just after 11pm exhausted but safe.
It seems the weather over there at the moment is ideal for resting and recuperating and keeping warm with hot chocolate.
DS is, as usual, in shorts and t-shirt and loving the cold.
Crazy person.
I'll be back to catch up and post soon. We've been without power for 36 hours because of Storm Darragh. It's been freezing cold too. I hope everyone is ok.
Glad they’ve arrived safely Kaimoana
*Hope you’ll all forgive me for a quick visit again. I’ve been at church from 9.30 to 7.15 pm and have been on my feet most of the time. I’m shattered and not feeling too great. Just going to have a bit to eat and go to bed. Another hectic day tomorrow not sure I’m up to it but hope to post more soon.xx
I'm so pleased your family is back together and all is well Kaimoana. Worries are so much bigger when you can't do anything to help.
What are you doing on your feet all that time Doodles? I hope your church is complete with cafe and warm toilets! That's a very long day! Look after yourself>
Such a relief Kaimoana. I hate when one of the family is in the air. I worry until they've landed.
Doodle that was a very long day!
Mine was relatively easy. I went for a long walk to show the Helper the local countryside. This evening I bussed into the city for an Advent dinner. This friend grows all the ingredients for the delicious food she cooks, on her allotment. This time she even served home grown Qinoa in her own hand made pottery. She and her other friends are all good company.
I tried my washing machine again today and it worked! I don't suppose it will last much longer but good that I don't have to replace it right now!
Sleep well 😴 Lobstars
Doodle you really should look after yourself, especially considering there's still a lot of Covid about.
NN when I was a young whippersnapper in my 20's and 30s, my husband and I
used to go camping.
Basic stuff : walking miles, carrying packs and an often-smelly baby but we had a fantastic Swedish stove, a Trangia - wind and weather proof, totally safe.
I brough it to NZ when I came back and have used it so many times since, as we had power cuts too. I've cooked many a full family meal on it.
I think your washing machine has been talking to mine Grammaretto - that is exactly what mine did. 
A mixed day for me.
Woke up feeling glum and groggy but was hoping to get the pension sorted on my visit to WINZ. Not a hope. It seems the $50 deduction is 'normal'. 
I was lucky to get a very patient person, rather than the usual Taniwha, who explained why. Nothing to do with my supposed earnings from Trevor (a vast fortune, $NZ400 = £183 over 3 years) and a great deal to do with the current regime's determination to make life difficult, even for the elderly.
I am luckier than most, not least because when Ange the Advocate arrived it was with a letter from thr Sallies saying I'd been approved for an Xmas food bag. Every little helps, especially as they too have had cuts which meant laying off hundreds of staff, including social workers across NZ and the Pacific. <sigh>
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At WINZ I was offered the services of a budgeting expert and was able to say, 'I was a budgetter for many years for Baptist Social Services and the CAB.' I didn’t smirk, the man was tryng to be helpful but I do wonder how families manager without my experinece of finances ¬and a love of cooking. I can make a little go a long way.,
So I'm counting my blessings and there was another nice thing too on this rather dull, depressing day.
Ange told her Mum about Trevor the Daring Duck and was asked to buy a copy which she did. Now the dear old lady wants to meet me and take me out for coffee, isn't that lovely?
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Sorry all another flying visit. I have been back at church clearing up and cleaning after the weekend. I have lost my voice and feel quite rough so even though it’s the middle of the after I’m off to bed, I haven’t slept much for the past few days and I think I just need to relax.
Hope all are well.xx
Oh my goodness Doodle, you have been overdoing things. I hope the early night and a good rest will revive you.
I've been decluttering all day. Unfortunately there is hardly any noticeable difference 😕
I managed to give away 2 tents and camping equipment. Not what the charity shops really want at this time of year but they took it all. Then a trip to the dump which felt cathartic.
How awful to lose part of your income Kaimoana. That is quite shocking.
Bear with me lobsters...I know some of you read Soops kitchen thread and will know I'm struggling today. I will be back with you when my heart is less heavy.
I've just recommended a spray to a friend which might help anyone needing a wee boost, especially in winter.
Developed by Better You and Cardiff University, it's called 'Lights Out' and contains 5-HTP which helps the body boosts its own serotonin (known as the feel-good hormone) levels as well as helping sleep.
Sold all over the UK and by Amazon, I can attest it's certainly helped me.
It's had great reviews and is one of the new innovative ways of taking alternatives and vitamins orally rather than capsules or tablets.
I have just realised it's your birthday 🎂 Naughtyneine I read the soup thread
I an sorry that you are miserable 😔
Perhaps you are feeling a bit better now?
I'm sure Jeeves can be dispatched to bring you restorative victuals pdq.
I can remember being 70. I had a party. I held it 2 months before the actual date so that my NZ family could come and so the weather would be better. I highly recommend having 2 birthdays per year.
I've just gone AWOL to read Soup's thread. I do hope your spirits are lifting NN. It's horrible that bad memories are brought back to the fore on what should be a happy day (the 70's are ok - it's an age for saying b****r it, and doing what you want).
Grammaretto is right to say that two birthdays are a good idea. The Queen had two and I assume King Charles is continuing the tradition. I would suggest June 8th as then it won't interfere with His Maj's. 
Naughtyneine.I don’t read Soops Kitchen thread although I seem to be in the minority- don’t think I could keep up with two lots of messaging! Hope you are soon feeling more cheerful and back to your chatty self. As for being 70 as Nfk says that’s ok - but being on the way to 80 definitely isn’t ok!
Doodle what are you doing? It’s good to be busy and have an interest but it really sounds as if you are doing far too much. You must make time for yourself and to relax as well as helping at your Church. I know Christmas is a strange and emotional time for a lot of us. It brings back so many memories. I don’t particularly enjoy it and will be glad when the days gradually become lighter and Spring is on the way. Take care
Naughtyneine - sorry you've been out of power ... I hope you are warming up now. - and Doodle - what a very long day.
Rest up my friends
Here's to a better day tomorrow
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(Mulled wine or hot blackcurrant as you prefer!)
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