Gosh, NS, your picture of the cactus brings me out in a cold sweat.
For many years, my father had one banned to in his greenhouse. It was particularly unprepossessing and really only of interest for its great (5'+) height.
My DM was thrilled when DF gifted it to DS1 in his cactus and succulents phase, tho' transporting it back 200 miles in the footwell with 3 small children was challenging.
You couldn't even kill it by ignoring it.
Despite a concerted attempt to off load much out of fashion brown furniture, I have found the chair of my -current- dreams and successfully made an offer.
A high back ash and elm Windsor chair, beautifully and sympathetically restored.
For use on heatwave afternoons, by an open bedroom window, book in hand!
I heard from Kaimoana this evening. She messages when she is able, I guess eyesight permitting. She is trying to pack up in the hope of moving nearer to DS and Gubbins with another assessment coming up shortly.
I sent our love to her, but don't know when she will read again.