Gransnet forums

Culture/Arts

The niqab is a misogynist monstrosity

(233 Posts)
thatbags Thu 19-Sept-13 12:30:51

Anne Marie Waters on why the people who call niqab-wearing "a choice" are not feminists whatever they think they are.

thatbags Wed 25-Sept-13 12:35:11

Several of us have said, several times, that it's not the black sack clothing that's the problem. It's not the hair covering that's the problem. It's the face-covering. If anyone really thinks face-covering within our species, for no adequate reason such as necessary protection from the elements, then I'm truly and utterly amazed and cannot fathom their reasoning at all.

thatbags Wed 25-Sept-13 12:32:47

?

thatbags Wed 25-Sept-13 12:32:22

So, just so I understand correctly, pen, are you saying it is allright to cover one's face all the time, even when there is no need for protection purposes and when it makes other members of one's social order uneasy because they naturally associate the face-covering of social apes as WEIRD in the extreme, as well as, in any case, very rearely necessary.

thatbags Wed 25-Sept-13 12:29:57

It's still face-covering that's the problem, not the clothes people choose to wear.

Penstemmon Wed 25-Sept-13 12:29:07

Oh and a couple of other replies to other posts

RC schools vary but most will give preference to RC applicants, Headteachers have to be practising RCs and must not be divorced or have married a non-catholic! Must be able to kiss the Bishops ring!!

Think Guantanamo re western/Christians committing atrocities.

thatbags Wed 25-Sept-13 12:28:34

Except... another question...

Should I be surprised if I were asked to remove my stormtrooper helmet because people wanted/needed/had a right to see my face?

I'll answer that for you. No.

And what's more, I should remove it. See bananas remark about what Yasmin A-B has said on the subject of social cohesion.

Elegran Wed 25-Sept-13 12:26:44

It might keep out the midges though, unless it trapped them inside where they could have a banquet.

Restricting freedom of movement is a big feature of the garment, you are right!

thatbags Wed 25-Sept-13 12:26:42

Yes, pen. That's my view too.

thatbags Wed 25-Sept-13 12:26:10

PS Scythes do not wear shoes #disambiguation

Penstemmon Wed 25-Sept-13 12:25:42

If you want to thatbags and it was not forced on you..wear what you like. As long as your DH /father/ family etc is not forcing you to!

thatbags Wed 25-Sept-13 12:25:17

Have at ya, bananas! Impressed by your posts.

thatbags Wed 25-Sept-13 12:21:38

No, elegran, a burka would be a stupid garment to wear when using a scythe. It would get in the way and restrict freedom of movement. Funny, but I'm not surprised about that.

It is, however, perfectly safe to use a scythe with no shoes on – providing you're using it properly, of course, and not standing on nettles.

Maggiemaybe Wed 25-Sept-13 12:19:25

Well, vampirequeen, you are speaking from your experience and I from mine. But you chose to apply your experience of one diocese to all Catholic schools. From my experience, that diocese's rules do not apply to all. There were over 100 applicants when my non-Catholic daughter was appointed and obviously the Catholics amongst them were not prioritised. Ergo, a sweeping statement.

BAnanas Wed 25-Sept-13 12:16:50

Anniebach - I'm not one of those who would want the death penalty restored, or deny women the right to abortion.

However, getting back to the subject which is niqabs and burkas. I mentioned this before, when I was wandering around the Dome of the Rock in Jerusalem a few years ago I was asked to cover my lower arms. I did this by borrowing my husband's jacket. My point in mentioning this is a) I did not want to offend anyone there who expressed the wish that I should be covered more fully than I was and b) I accepted that it was my place to fit in with the customs of a different culture and different religion where I was a visitor. Similarly if I were an ex pat in somewhere such as Saudi and I was asked to cover up in a more extreme way, even though I would find this rule not to my liking, I would see little point in arguing by saying "this is what I choose to wear". Sometimes it's simply best to go with the flow, "when in Rome" is as apt now as it ever was.

Again it was brought up before not only by me but someone else, there is a man in this country who likes to ramble naked, irrespective of the fact that he my stumble across the general public most of whom would find the sight of him wandering along with all his bits swinging in the wind alarming. Does the individual have the right to do whatever they want at the expense of the rest of society? Many muslim journalists such as Yasmin Allibah Brown state that the veil is a barrier and a hindrance to social cohesion and the onus should be on the incomer to remove them for the greater good. Of course we know that some women are not able to do that because of the restrictive practices their menfolk impose on them. However, there is another sector of women who do choose to wear them, those who are born here and have turned back to the fundamental part of their religion, often against their own parents' wishes. They know that wearing these clothes are a cause for concern on many levels and that a proportion of society are not comfortable with this way of dressing for many reasons, not least the association it has with terrorist acts. It wasn't so long ago that an MP was stabbed at his own surgery by one of his constituents who was able to conceal a knife in the voluminous garment she was wearing, not that I'm saying that it couldn't be hidden under a coat, I just think there is more scope when everything is covered and we should acknowledge we live under the cloud of terrorism. Possibly I feel more like this now as I know someone who was injured in the London tube bombings and I know that person has been deeply scarred by their experience. I did work in London at the height of the IRA campaign and I know how jumpy it made me. Surely the safety of the general public should be paramount and if this annoys a small minority by asking them to not enter public buildings and malls etc. in unacceptable clothing then I'd say that was justifiable . Frankly we could go round and round forever on this subject, you are of course entitled to your opinion, I don't agree with you for the many reasons I have given, that's it really.

Turning to the subject of education and informed choice VQ, there's little hope of that when hard line muslim societies seek to deny their female counterparts any sort of schooling and think nothing of shooting a little girl in the head for defending her rights to an education.

Also we have to come to terms the fact that there are those who reject our western life style which they see as broken and decadent and possibly they have a point, but whatever the downsides, and yes there are many,nowhere is a utopia, it still a whole lot preferable to life in say Saudi or Afghanistan.

Elegran Wed 25-Sept-13 12:12:47

I thought you were going to ask about wearing a burqa to strim nettles and keep out the midges.

thatbags Wed 25-Sept-13 12:03:12

Would it be allright for me to wear one of these all the time when out in public?

If not, why not?

vampirequeen Wed 25-Sept-13 11:08:47

We can exhibit the good side of what we've achieved however we can only expect people to change through education and informed choice.

Elegran Wed 25-Sept-13 10:47:39

The 20th century has been a journey toward a more equal society. We are not there yet, but we have progressed. Contact with that may help other cultures who are further back on the road if we exhibit the good side of what we have achieved.

Anniebach Wed 25-Sept-13 10:39:36

Yes Elegan, no way did I mean we should not comment on this, but surely discussing how we in the west moved forward cannot be ignored, we didn't wake up one morning and all was well for woman in this country. And I have my doubts on American equality of the sexes , more than doubts!

Not a case of digging up the past, I have not spoken of the crusades but of the 20th century

Elegran Wed 25-Sept-13 10:09:23

Digging up past attitudes when discussing present conditions is not entirely relevant, though. At one time we had similar views on religious conformity and female emancipation, but we have cleaned up our act. Some countries have been around long enough to evolve from repressive patriarchy to equality, but have not chosen to relinquish male power and also do so. We can comment on this.

Anniebach Wed 25-Sept-13 09:48:13

Bananas, discussing atrocities carried out by this country is no different to discussing atrocities carried out in other countries . This is why I spoke of abortion in this country, and the fact many are calling for the death penalty to be restored .

I think it arrogant of us to tell Muslim women ' your holy book doesn't tell you to wear the Niqab so you have no need to wear it' . They choose to wear it, this is enough for me.

vampirequeen Tue 24-Sept-13 20:32:24

It wasn't a sweeping statement. It was from experience. Until recently I taught in a Catholic school and it's part of Diocesan policy that all the teachers in the diocese follow those guidelines. They also reintroduced the morality clause few years ago after a two senior teachers had an affair that became public knowledge.

If they are inundated with applications for teaching vacancies they look for the practising Roman Catholics as the first short list.

BAnanas Tue 24-Sept-13 20:30:22

Anniebach Like all colonial powers, atrocities were committed by Britain, I don't deny that but we can't put right all the wrongs of the past and just how far back would we be expected to go? I'm not sure we should be held to account for wrong doings before any of us existed, how can it be the fault of the present generation? Should this generation of Germans apologise for the Nazis, or the Japanese for the ill treatment of prisoners of war in the 1940s. It's a futile gesture to ask generations down the line to somehow atone for the sins of their fathers. We can only deal with the present and possibly the future. Yes sometimes reparations are paid in recognition of wrong doings, but again, how far back do you go?

I do believe if you are talking about the present, we should not interfere in other countries affairs, or have the arrogance to think that we should change those nations to fit in with our idea of what we think they should be, but we tread a fine line between stepping in to help those who are being persecuted and possibly interfering and making things worse. I personally disagree in our unequivocal backing of the US in many instances. I think it's fair to say that most nations at some stage have perpetuated some sort of cruelty against their fellow man, unfortunately it's the darker side of human nature.

Nevertheless, discussing atrocities committed by us as a nation is digressing somewhat from the subject of this thread.

Maggiemaybe Tue 24-Sept-13 19:54:07

No time to read the whole thread, I'm afraid. But glancing through a few of the posts, I did notice a sweeping generalisation about faith schools. "A Catholic school requires teachers to attend and participate in prayers and mass. It's brought up at interview that you will be expected to support the faith and follow Church teachings and traditions." Says who? My non-Catholic daughter taught in a traditional Catholic school, and was told on being appointed that she could choose to attend the Catholic assemblies or not as she wished. The fact that she wasn't a Catholic obviously didn't count for much at interview.

susieb755 Tue 24-Sept-13 19:49:27

We may have carried out atrocities in the name of religion many centuries ago, but we have moved on from this, unlike many Islamic countries who keep their citizens illiterate so they cannot read the truth , and through terror and violent extremism seek to impose their views on others.

I think women that 'choose' to wear the niqab are misguided attention seekers, especially those white British - it is not a requirement of the religion, but a requirement of male dominated patriarchal cultures who treat women as possessions, and deny them education and free speech