My first was born at 34wks and didn't have suck reflex so expressed for 8 wks before I dried up. Second born at 36wks didn't want to have any body contact at all (later discovered his joints were so lax they dislocated when held), so fed in bouncy chair by bottle. Third would only drink my milk from me, refused to EVER drink from a bottle and carried on until she was nearly 3yrs old and I had a hysterectomy so dried up.
My second child, a boy was eventually diagnosed as having Autism, as well as Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, and was very demanding. Baby sisters breast feeding was about all the attention she got. No one ever said anything, a couple of blokes had a good ganders, but I would never have taken her yo a show etc.
Now I will shock you, I was such a Jersey Cow that I was a supplier for the local SCBU, so always had stocks awaiting collection in the fridge and freezer, and (cringe), I did resort to using my milk for custard making a couple of times (and everyone commented on how lovely it was.....didn't tell them!