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Philosophical ideas to get through hard times

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Dawn22 Mon 16-Mar-20 19:14:26

I would like to start a thread about what we can learn from the old stoics and philosophers and there is much to know about there take on life and then how we can apply that to 21st living.

I liked this so here goes

An old Cherokee was teaching his grandson about life.
"A fight is going on inside me" he said to the boys. It is a fight between two wolves. One has anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, self-pity, guilt, lies and ego."
He continued; "The other is good- he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, kindness, empathy, truth, compassion and faith.
"The same fight is going on inside you too Grandson - and inside every other person too."
The Grandson looked and asked "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee simply replied "The one you feed".

Hope this message helps.

Dawn22 Sun 21-Jun-20 19:20:27

Bluebell
Beautiful thought.??

Dawn22 Sun 21-Jun-20 19:19:09

No act of kindness; no matter how small is ever wasted.
- Aesop

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

Bluebellwould Fri 19-Jun-20 20:52:56

It is what it is. My husband and I used this a lot when he was dying. To me it means accepting things as they truly are, not regretting things that have gone or futilely wishing things were different.

Dawn22 Fri 19-Jun-20 20:45:41

Flowers grow back even after the harshest winter. You will too.
Buddhist quote.

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

Dawn22 Wed 17-Jun-20 17:45:31

We need kindness more than cleverness.

Dawn22 Thu 11-Jun-20 21:04:16

True friends are like stars
You don t always see them
But they are always there

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon

May7 Wed 10-Jun-20 22:56:46

Auto correct Lemn Sissay

May7 Wed 10-Jun-20 19:40:49

If you can see the white mist of the oasis
The red, white and blue that you defended
If you can see it all through the blackest pupil
The colours stretching the rainbow suspended
If you can see the breached blue dusk
And the caramel curls in swirls of tea
Why do you say you are colour blind when you see me?

Lemm Sissay

Dawn22 Tue 09-Jun-20 23:01:29

If opportunity does not knock, build a door.
Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

Dawn22 Mon 08-Jun-20 23:21:09

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon

Dawn22 Sun 07-Jun-20 14:30:17

I believe that the only true religion consists of having a good heart.

Buddhist quote.

May7 Sat 06-Jun-20 22:36:53

Respect a man, he will do the more.

James Howel

rosecarmel Sat 06-Jun-20 07:07:59

Kindness is a language that the deaf can hear and the blind can see -- Mark Twain

Dawn22 Fri 05-Jun-20 22:25:27

It is what it is.

Sleep the sleep of the just. Ano

rosecarmel Thu 04-Jun-20 21:01:00

The Circle Around the Zero ~ by Rumi

A lover doesn’t figure the odds.

He figures he came clean from God
as a gift without a reason,
so he gives without cause
or calculation or limit.

A conventionally religious person
behaves a certain way
to achieve salvation.

A lover gambles everything, the self,
the circle around the zero!
He or she cuts and throws it all away.

This is beyond any religion.

Lovers do not require from God any proof,
or any text, nor do they knock on a door
to make sure this is the right street.

They run,
and they run.

~ Rumi

Dawn22 Thu 04-Jun-20 19:56:11

Losing a friend means that you have room to make another.

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

Dawn22 Tue 02-Jun-20 16:12:31

When you focus on problems you get more problems.
Buddha.

Dawn22 Sun 31-May-20 23:02:40

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

May7 Sun 31-May-20 00:35:15

Humour is the weapon of unarmed people: it helps people who are oppressed to smile at the situation that pains them.

Simon Wiesenthal

Dawn22 Sat 30-May-20 22:56:59

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

Sweet dreams.

Dawn22 Fri 29-May-20 23:10:25

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon

rosecarmel Thu 28-May-20 05:32:53

"By going out of your mind, you come to your senses-"
Alan Watts

Dawn22 Wed 27-May-20 19:40:56

Don't look for happiness where you lost it.

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

Dawn22 Wed 27-May-20 19:39:48

rosecarmel
I love elephants. I like the fact that they don't eat other animals and are therefore not hunters. Such a huge amount of foliage they must consume to sustain such a large body.
Dawn.

rosecarmel Tue 26-May-20 22:50:23

“Elephants love reunions. They recognize one another after years and years of separation and greet each other with wild, boisterous joy. There’s bellowing and trumpeting, ear flapping and rubbing. Trunks entwine.”
― Jennifer Richard Jacobson, Small as an Elephant