Trev welcome. I cant add anything to this other than to hope you MIL is picking up. I am going through similar with mine at the MO but she does live in an extra care accomodation where the lunchtime meal is provided- she prefers to have a cream cake rather than lunch. We have engaged a nice lady from Age UK to go in twice a week for housework and shopping but it was a struggle to get MIL to accept this. She is 99 in December. The next battel is to get her to accept help with washing as se is unsteady on her feet and insists on showering daily and wont sit on the shower chair. I have now told her that her three sons are worrying a fact they didnt want her to know but i felt she should know and then she might feel a bit more like co-operating. I hope that doesnt sound hard.
Kate Garroway-Care at home costs
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