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I’m a pear !

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NanKate Tue 08-May-18 16:04:23

I have returned to my own healthy eating plan as I need to lose a stone. I am pear shaped with a small bust, reasonable waist and overlarge hips.

On reading the ever sensible Dr Scurr in the DM this morning I discovered a healthy waist size is 31 ins for women and 37 ins for men. I rather smugly measured myself expecting a pat on the back only to find I am 5 ins over the recommended size ?

Onward and upward or preferably downward.

merlotgran Sun 23-Sept-18 20:19:13

I'm dreading tomorrow's weigh in as well. DD and DGS came for lunch today. Roast beef etc., etc., and tarte tatin shock not to mention the wine.

Just seen the weather forecast on Countryfile and it looks like we're set for five good days so apart from Friday when DH has to go to the dentist, I've told everyone I'm unavailable!

Some hopes. hmm

The cake sounds fab.

NfkDumpling Sun 23-Sept-18 19:57:09

Not looking forward to weighing in tomorrow morning. I’ve more or less maintained my loss but today was DGD’s family birthday tea. A buffet. I’m doomed with a buffet. The cake was - a brain! She’s a weird child. Made from chocolate cake covered in melted marshmallow thickened with icing sugar and shaped. It was surprisingly good. And then there was the Proseco.........

NfkDumpling Sun 23-Sept-18 19:53:10

Me too Merlot. I quite look forward to a good tidy up in the garden and spreading the compost. Then the winter blues set in. We’ve taken to having a week in the sun somewhere in February. Just looking forward to heading south to somewhere with longer, drier, sunnier days shortens the winter and gives us something to look forward to. We’re blessed that we can afford to do this.

merlotgran Sun 23-Sept-18 13:01:37

That's what concerns me as well. I rely on the garden for keeping me fit and lifting my mood. I enjoy the beginning of winter - lighting the woodburner and piling on jumpers but the novelty soon wears off.

It's going to have to be Walk At Home and relying on my FitPro, the cheaper version of Fitbit, to remind me to get up and Move!!

I can't say I'm looking forward to it.

oldbatty Sun 23-Sept-18 11:08:14

Great advice, thanks. The alternative is when the winter sets in, the pounds pile on.

merlotgran Sun 23-Sept-18 11:00:42

Have you tried introducing something a little bit different, oldbatty? Researching some recipes you haven't tried before and adapting them to your weight loss plan?

I have found that having something to really focus on lifts my mood, especially in the winter. I don't know about your physical fitness but there are some excellent exercises on YouTube for all abilities. Sometimes a bit of a wake up call to your system works wonders.

Definitely cut down on wine. I drink gin and slimline tonic instead (plenty of tonic, ice and lemon) I do enjoy a few glasses of dry white at weekends though but never with a meal that might be higher in calories than normal. If I do drink wine with meals I make sure I have a glass of water on the table as well.

Don't give up. Just keep telling yourself you're doing it for YOU.

oldbatty Sun 23-Sept-18 10:36:04

Oh blimey....its just not happening at all for me. I am wrestling with depression so I might have to settle for healthyish eating and cut down the wine.

Maybe that will have to do for now!

fourormore Sun 23-Sept-18 10:30:49

Sunday morning weigh-in and I have lost a pound. Am a bit disappointed but having 'plateaued' for so long it is better than nothing.
Good luck fellow strugglers!

NanKate Fri 21-Sept-18 08:02:22

Under half a pound up after hols, not too bad.

Shirleyw Fri 21-Sept-18 05:17:21

Lol so true BillyBob....

a positive has come out of that then nfk....hope results are ok.....

merlotgran Thu 20-Sept-18 19:16:46

Well done, Nfk. A nice bonus for all the discomfort.

NfkDumpling Thu 20-Sept-18 19:13:09

Well, I’ve had a bit of a ‘Whoosh”! I seem to have lost nearly three pounds overnight - mind you it took an endoscopy! I suspect most of it is dehydration as I was told not to drink after 8.30am as my appointment was 9,30. I got in to see the consultant at 11.15 and was then unable to drink until 1.15! I’ve eaten very carefully today so wonder what tomorrow will bring.

Billybob4491 Thu 20-Sept-18 12:58:41

That's good Shirley, week 7 tomorrow, whenever I go to be weighed I feel as if I am going along to sit an exam, the nerves you wouldn't believe! Wasn't bothering me when the weight was going on.

NanKate Thu 20-Sept-18 08:25:18

Keep going Shirley and well done.

Shirleyw Thu 20-Sept-18 04:35:21

Lol nankate.
That's good loss BillyBob.
I lost 3 and a half pounds this week after staying the same last week....9 lbs in total, ...

NanKate Tue 18-Sept-18 07:26:16

You made me laugh Billy.

It’s so good that a few of us have stayed the course and are going downwards, mostly. I wouldn’t have lost a stone if it wasn’t for checking in here regularly.

My DH said recently I now look quite shapely since my waist has reappeared. I told him I now weighed the same as when we married almost 47 years ago. He told me he was past carrying me over the threshold ?

Billybob4491 Tue 18-Sept-18 07:11:58

Am female Nankate, week 6 last week lost another one and a half pounds, 11 pounds in total. Can now see my waistline. Long way to go yet, but pressing on, also my bottom does not cover ALL the chair when I sit down! (hope that wasn't too graphic)

NfkDumpling Mon 17-Sept-18 20:54:07

One and a half stones in five months is brilliant Merlot. Well done!

NanKate Mon 17-Sept-18 17:31:39

Great news Merlot. I have recently returned from hols but didn’t over indulge too much, I will weigh myself on Friday and see how things are going. I’ve recently worn two pairs of trousers that were destined for the charity shop, but now I can wear them, yippee.

How are things going for you Billy? I am not sure if I am talking to a male or female, but it makes no difference.

Billybob4491 Mon 17-Sept-18 16:50:27

Well done Merlot, that was a nice surprise.

merlotgran Mon 17-Sept-18 09:54:21

I got on the scales this morning expecting to be disappointed because I've indulged a bit over the weekend but I must have had a mini-whoosh because I've lost 2lbs since Friday!

It must be the gardening wot dunnit.

That's a total of 1st. 8oz in just under five months. Slow but sure.

Stick at it, folks. Onwards an downwards. grin

NfkDumpling Sun 16-Sept-18 18:50:52

grin

merlotgran Sun 16-Sept-18 17:57:10

I thinks that's what's been happening to me, Nfk. It's a busy time of year in the garden and I know it must be doing me good because I can feel tummy muscles tightening and the tops of my legs are looking slimmer.

The only whooshing I seem to be doing though is at 4am. hmm

NfkDumpling Sun 16-Sept-18 16:42:56

Still waiting for the ‘Whoosh’! I have lost a pound of what I put on stuffing scampi and chips. Lots of gardening again today. Moving plants around and digging. I think all the fat must be turning into heavy muscle!

fourormore Sun 16-Sept-18 16:19:40

Not a good week as lots of times when somewhat naughty food was more available and tempting than 'sensible' food! Resistance is futile at times like that hmm
Having said that I only put on 0.2 of a pound which basically is a hiccup hopefully. This coming week looks only slightly better but fingers crossed that the 'whoosh' will happen soon!
Good luck everyone as we start another week and continuing best wishes to Panache and Mr P flowers