Shinamae you don't need to give up cheese but by the amount you have on your salad did you weight it . Mature cheddar is 4 .1 cals per gram St Augur is even higher. You can still have your cheese fix but instead of relying on meal replacement drinks you could have a healthy diet and cheaper. You just need to plan . At least if you cooked and made your meal from scratch you aren't taking in lots of additives and preservatives which are in meal replacement drinks and ready meals.
Your salad was very protein heavy with high fat content in your cheese. If you had halved the amount of cheese more salad and you could have been a carbohydrate like cold pasta,rice,bulgar wheat or couscous. It would have given you a larger meal with less calories.
I know I will get flak but I have lost 7st by eating food I make myself. Because of my health problems . I make enough dinners to last 6 meals and enough soup made from red lentils and whatever veg I have in ..And always have porridge for breakfast as it keeps me full until lunchtime. My way of eating wouldn't suit lot of people but it's worked for me and I know exactly what I put into my meals. Plus it's cheaper.
If you want to lose weight and keep it off there are no quick fixes. But you have to alter your mind set. I still have treats but add them to my allowance.
I don't work but some on the pears thread do and have worked out a healthy eating plan from scratch .
But losing weight is a personal thing . But I had decades of yo yo dieting and being morbidly obese. But no more.
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