OP Loads of good (and varied!) ideas on here. Try some out and see what DGD enjoys doing.
I used to have a set of exam papers from when I was 10. All, including arithmetic, were 95-100% with one exception. The table test. It always made me panic, I couldn't come up with instant answers. I just couldn't learn them although I was clearly USING multiplication to work out answers. I got into grammar school and had no further problems, in due course getting a comfortable, not a 'scraped', pass at O level. Obviously I had somehow learnt them but i think it happened by using them, not by learning them by rote. I think I used to go through the table adding until I got to the bit I needed which is not possible in a quick fire table test.
I then became a primary teacher. I always ensured that my pupils first understood what tables were. We made them from plastic or wooden cubes. We drew buildings with various rows of windows. The chanting only came after the children understood what tables were from holding them or drawing them in many different forms.
Some children find it far more difficult to learn tables than others however hard they try.
My advice would be try plenty of games, on and off line, use concrete equipment, beads, counters, cotton reels, whatever is around and they'll come in time.
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