“I would like the children to be taught good manners and to be respectful.”
Every morning I or the other senior managers would stand at the school doors to welcome the children into school. We would wish the parents “ good morning” and then each child, by name. They were taught to respond in the same way. If they did not say “good morning, “ use the teacher’s name, use eye contact, or if they ran down the corridor without responding, they had to come back and were, gently but firmly, reminded how to behave. The parents? Most were polite, but some were on their phones, ignored us, or, sometimes, leaned in with a complaint. It was surprising how pleasant and polite some children were in school, and how badly behaved when we saw them after school or out with their parents.