Thank you so much for all these posts; they brought back happy memories of my childhood.
Most respondents to this thread reminisce about lessons in the 50s and 60s. I had elocution lessons in their twilight days of the early to mid 80s from the excellent Miss Spain. The school, in SE London, had recently converted to private from the phased-out direct grant system but had held on to its socially aspirational mindset, a mindset embodied at the time by Margaret Thatcher’s carefully manufactured image. This is what I think elocution lessons were all about.
People, nowadays, might say that my parents were ‘snobby’ to put me through the lessons but I think they were realists and that there was a greater honesty then as to what was required to be successful. Nothing’s changed today - the likes of Boris Johnson are still running the country and controlling the lion’s share of the well-paid employment opportunities. As in the past, the upper echelons are most likely to give those opportunities to people they feel share their values or, at least, aspire to them; a cut-glass accent is an important part of this, I think. I’m not, for one minute, saying that this is right - it clearly isn’t. I just feel that it’s the way things are.
Sorry - I hope that didn’t sound too preachy. On a lighter note, I don’t think anyone’s mentioned ‘The rain in Spain stays mainly on the plain’. Did anyone else have to recite vowels at the start of every lesson? A (as on ‘hay’), E (as in ‘tea’), I (‘sty’), O (‘oh’), U (‘ruin’). I found the latter particularly amusing, not able at the time to understand how ‘u’ could be ‘oo’.