Thank you all in advance. I do know that different councils have slightly different policies, but would be grateful for shared experience and wisdom.
Background: DS accepted a job in a small market town, needs to live near work, his wife could work from home / commute 2 days a week, and they were in easy walking distance of a pleasant school which also provides 'wrap around care', where we assumed DGC age 4) would start this September.
A legal glitch meant that they couldn't apply for school places in the 'first round' - the move was put back 2 weeks. However, naively, we weren't worried.
They have now heard that DGC can't get into that school, and has been allocated one 15 minutes drive away in a very small village with no public transport. Only 'extra child care' is 2 after-school clubs a week. No childminders apparently available near the school. Also, it does seem that no-one else in the town goes to this school (why would they?!)
I have suggested that if they ask for home-school transport, this will give them a little extra time, but they are understandably anxious. Can they take him to school at first to settle him, then pick up home-school transport later? Can they accept it, but then collect him themselves 2 afternoons?
Of course they can ask the school (which does look lovely) but I think any background knowledge / experience will be helpful.
I should add that we will be helping, but an hour's round trip plus school run is not practical every day.
We are all a bit upset: DS because he took this job, and can't cut his work hours just yet; DiL because that means she may have to cut her work hours; us because one reason for the move was for us to help more! Also, they wanted to live in that town and be part of that community.
I have to say that I am a bit angry on wider issues - I do know that childcare is not a school's job, but the provision is so patchy!
All this car driving is bad for the environment; there is extra cost to the Council in paying for transport. Is there any point in an appeal on those grounds?
Do you feel guilty if you have a lie in??



