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Grammar schools - 1960s/1970s

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CariadAgain Tue 02-Sept-25 19:40:44

Lathyrus3

It’s not quite accurate to say that your place was given to a boy who hadn’t passed. He had passed. It was just that the pass mark for boys was lower than the pass mark for girls!

This is why there were equal numbers. The system ensured that.

A rose by any other name - will smell as (not) sweet at all.

I did get given my pass - rather than it being handed over to a boy. I guess the "pass mark for boys was lower than the pass mark for girls" is another way of saying "Yep....sex discrimination against girls" and maybe that was the logistics of what had to happen to prevent my pass being wrongly given to a boy instead - ie pointing out that "If a boy can be deemed to have passed at x% - then why should a girl have to get more than x% to have her pass given to her?".

Maybe my mother pointed out that if a boy would have passed with my marks = then I had obviously passed too with the exact same marks.

Calendargirl Tue 02-Sept-25 19:25:28

Also, my DD was one of the oldest in her year, this went against her I believe, as we were told children with ‘summer’ birthdays were given more leeway.

Calendargirl Tue 02-Sept-25 19:22:31

When my daughter ‘failed’ her 11+, this was in the mid 80’s though, I was disappointed because certain boys in her year ‘passed’, and I knew she did better than them in the routine school work, weekly tests and suchlike.

However, her very wise headmaster told me that although she worked hard, was a diligent pupil, no trouble to teach, boys developed later than girls, and by the time they were in their early teens, these same boys would have matured educationally, and be much brighter, if that makes sense, than my hard working girl.

And this proved to be the case. These same boys who I had written off achieved much as they grew older.

Visgir1 Tue 02-Sept-25 19:04:11

I did a Further Education Psychology module, back in late 80's, we were told that all Girls where educational "loaded" in the 11plus. In my area there was an extra Grammar School for Boys. So the girls had x2 they boys x3. Always knew it was fixed.

keepingquiet Tue 02-Sept-25 19:04:02

I took my 11+ plus and the convent school entrance exam which was only for girls.

I failed both and went to a mixed school where I had an abolute blast!

Lathyrus3 Tue 02-Sept-25 18:58:45

It’s not quite accurate to say that your place was given to a boy who hadn’t passed. He had passed. It was just that the pass mark for boys was lower than the pass mark for girls!

This is why there were equal numbers. The system ensured that.

Iam64 Tue 02-Sept-25 18:57:12

The grammar school system was unfair in so many ways. More places for boys than girls, and even more discrimination in areas with less places for girls

It was divisive. It banished many children to dreadful sec mods. I’m not criticising technical or secretarial courses which some but not all sec mods offered. I’m criticising the notion of segregating children at age 11 based on one exam.

Witzend Tue 02-Sept-25 18:49:54

My grammar school was all girls, too.

twiglet77 Tue 02-Sept-25 18:47:07

I started at a co-ed grammar school in 1967 and girls certainly outnumbered boys.

growstuff Tue 02-Sept-25 18:45:48

All the grammar schools in my area were single sex, so there was no question of giving more places to boys to make sure there was a 50/50 split.

CariadAgain Tue 02-Sept-25 18:41:26

I was surprised to read recently that the selection process was biased against girls. I had just been assuming that one either passed and went to grammar school or didnt pass and didnt go to grammar school.

Then I read recently that less boys were passing than girls and so what often happened was they told the "lowest pass level" girls that they hadn't passed (even though they had) and gave their places to boys who hadn't passed instead. It was more important to them to have that 50/50 girl/boy ratio than to be fair and, if you won a pass = you got it.

I had wondered why it felt like there was a bit of a kerfuffle after I sat the 11 plus. It boiled down to I'd said to my parents "If I don't pass the 11 plus - I want to go to the Convent School. I'm not going to go to the Secondary Modern". (Yep....I had no idea that would have cost money - and that would mean my mother wouldnt have been able to put as much money as she did into savings). I also had no idea my brother would certainly not have passed the exam when it was his turn.

I did pass - but I must have been one of the ones with a lowest level pass and the school were planning on giving my entrance pass to a boy who hadnt passed!!!!!!

Apparently the reason was because more girls passed than boys and they wanted 50% boys and 50% girls there - and hence they put in that unfair little clause.

It's a wonder I managed to pass in the first place - given I was an armed forces child and I think it was 7 primary schools I had in total because of that. So I remember my mother did go down to the school to "talk to" them - in other words tell them, I guess, to give my entrance pass to me and not someone less deserving that happened to be a boy.

I was more preoccupied at the time with the way I seem to recall children who passed had been promised a present - like a pushbike. So I was expecting a pushbike too (though I hadnt been promised anything at all) - and wasnt given a present at all for my pass.