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I miss my babyboy so much.

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jendepressed68 Mon 16-Mar-26 17:42:48

I saw your responses and I appreciated your kind words.

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jendepressed68 Mon 16-Mar-26 17:42:18

I had a brief fling with a young man who happened to be a friend with my son and there were some unfortunate communication issues and my son did tell me he didnt care at first and then he proceeded to ghost me and ceased contact entirely

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jendepressed68 Mon 16-Mar-26 17:40:33

well I never got the confirmation but could be that I didnt use my personal mail but I am not sure

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Smileless2012 Mon 16-Mar-26 17:18:01

Did you find out why your two previous threads were removed jen? I did respond to both and hope you saw my posts.

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Fallingstar Mon 16-Mar-26 17:13:32

I replied to this but then the post disappeared. The poster is talking about her son, they are now estranged, the reason fur which could be relating to her having an intimate relationship with her son’s friend from college. But am no judge or jury, this poster has obviously suffered for way to long, and is still hurting.

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BlueBelle Mon 16-Mar-26 17:02:40

It’s not clear to me who you are talking about, a baby you lost at birth or afterwards, a grown child who has left home, a boyfriend walking away, a husband who’s left you !!
Whatever it is I m sorry you are so sad, ten years is a long time to carry such sadness

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Grandmabatty Mon 16-Mar-26 17:00:03

This is a previous poster who posted about her son and an inappropriate relationship she had with his friend.
I think you should seek therapy because an open forum isn't the place for forgiveness or advice, really.

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Cossy Mon 16-Mar-26 16:53:56

Maybe you can tell us what led up to this and about your dear boy thanks

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Cossy Mon 16-Mar-26 16:53:11

🥀🥀

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Gran22boys Mon 16-Mar-26 16:50:59

What is the background to this?

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jendepressed68 Mon 16-Mar-26 16:21:34

I try really hard to manipulate and gaslight myself into just thinking I don't care but I do. I miss him everyday. This is a burden that I have been carrying for almost ten years now. I come home and sometimes I almost forget how much joy and soul he brought into the little dump I call home. I dont even know where he is today. I have been thinking about hiring a PI and try to contact him once more but I dont have the money for it. I locked away his room and everything but sometimes I relapse and I find myself going in there and just looking around, smelling his clothes, touching his books etc. The room hasn't changed at all, I preserve it. Its basically a museum to my babyboy. I just hope someday he comes back.

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