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Female ageism

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welbeck Tue 18-May-21 20:34:58

it also happens to women actors, the y get to 50 or 60 and tend to drop off the media circus, whereas men go on being sought.
remember that business with older women on the countryside programme being replaced by younger versions, also with newsreaders etc.
and the way older people esp women are portrayed in adverts.
OP, could you send in an audio file of you reading some news to various broadcasters, inc independent radio news.
they have some odd sounding people on in the wee small hours, and for traffic announcements.
i know being on radio would not get the visibility you talk of, but it's a start, networking and all that. good luck.

maddyone Tue 18-May-21 20:27:08

Blossoming

I think Mary Beard has lovely hair. I certainly wouldn’t call it straggly!

I would, I think it’s horrible and in dire need of a cut and style. Having said that I respect her decision to wear it however she likes.

M0nica Tue 18-May-21 20:14:03

but most of the women you name varian are on tv niw in the role of performing steers. Look at this well known old lady, gosh she can still speak and, shock horror, has a boyfriend.

We need to be on the media with out our presence being a feature. Just 'here are a group of women (aged 18-90) discussing the problems of travelling by bus, eating candyfloss, or dealing with the AA.

NotSpaghetti Tue 18-May-21 20:05:41

I would imagine plenty of older women in the media eventually get to a point where they've had enough.

So many other people retire, why not the people in the media?

Katie59 Tue 18-May-21 17:50:28

I’m not sure what normal women are, most of us retire and take it easy, a few organize or help out with charity work, others take up local politics. Surely it all depends what we want, do we want the commitment of a work schedule in our 70s and beyond.
Are there more opportunities for older men of the same age?,

Blossoming Tue 18-May-21 17:36:29

I strongly dislike the idea that older women are only acceptable if they don’t have grey hair. Many of the above mentioned have either wigs or dyed hair.

Namsnanny Tue 18-May-21 17:32:12

Katie59 and varian I think youve made the ops point for her.
As your examples have advantages that normal women dont.

Puzzled Tue 18-May-21 17:26:16

OH is 80, came home, complaining about being held up in the supermarket by "An old woman" having a long chat with the checkout girl!
She was probably lonely and needed the social contact.
Wonder how old she really was?
Possibly younger than us

Blossoming Mon 17-May-21 14:07:08

I think Mary Beard has lovely hair. I certainly wouldn’t call it straggly!

varian Mon 17-May-21 13:24:33

88 year old Joan Bakewell, 81 year old Gloria Hunniford and 80 year old Esther Rantzen are still on tv, but none of them sport grey hair!

Katie59 Mon 17-May-21 13:19:49

Angela Rippon , Gloria Hunniford, Tina Turner, Dolly Parton and lots more, actually I think we do rather better than the men

widgeon3 Mon 17-May-21 12:59:47

I am in my 80s, with wrinkles aplenty, white haired and snaggle toothed but still very aware and compos mentis I also speak clearly and, I think concisely
Where am I represented in the media?. Why do we disappear off the radar when we achieve a certain age, whatever that be?
Ancient wrinkled or indeed imperfect-looking men can read the news and comment on events with some gravitas. Why not me or someone like me? Are we considered to be too effete? (= worn out by childbirth originally)
Upon visiting Germany in the 1970s I was amazed to see an elderly woman with straggly long grey hair ( Like Mary Beard's but tied back) reading the news. My German was poor but, too my great surprise, she spoke so clearly that I was able to get the gist of the news
I had always considered that the point of speech was to convey information. Here in the UK, the people who have learned their English in foreign parts are often, on television, able to convey an understandable message in clear English, the indigenous are sometimes far less comprehensible