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Is alcohol going out of fashion?

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Alea Mon 28-Mar-16 18:32:18

So many people don't seem to drink these days. This was brought home to me yesterday. Some may be on medication which doesn't mx with alcohol (like anyone on antibiotics or in our case regular medication like DH)
some may be pregnant (DD) , some may be driving (one Sis in law and also DD's FIL) Some just don't really want to (DD's MIL)
I used far far more bottles of fizzy elderflower, fresh orange and water than gin/sherry/wine and while I didn't let the side down, it is becoming more of a regular occurrence than in my parents' day when mum could polish off a couple of lethal g&t's before dinner alone!

absent Mon 28-Mar-16 18:33:19

Not in my house.

merlotgran Mon 28-Mar-16 18:35:23

Our village shop would close down shock

kittylester Mon 28-Mar-16 18:35:41

Nor here! wine

bookdreamer Mon 28-Mar-16 18:38:25

Nor here

pompa Mon 28-Mar-16 18:38:50

Alcohol out of fashion, there goes another pig across the sky!

Synonymous Mon 28-Mar-16 18:48:43

We have still got some bottles that DS left with us when he moved out well over 20 years ago! He bought them to try and clearly didn't like them which is why I suppose they are still there and also because we aren't keen either. DH says he won't drink paint stripper! grin I suppose I should just dispose of it in some way but I don't think I could drink it either so I suppose it will be down the drain then.
We don't drink much alcohol at all and neither do friends and family although I do enjoy an occasional g&t. We are tea jennies. smile

glassortwo Mon 28-Mar-16 18:56:03

Just trying out this present from DS

annsixty Mon 28-Mar-16 19:18:23

I can't imagine life without alcohol.I certainly don't want to live to ninety, well that's my excuse. So pleased to have a real excuse this week as H has a significant birthday on Wed and I will have to start early and carry on for a day or two. Once again that's my excuse.?

phoenix Mon 28-Mar-16 19:26:10

Currently can't afford both cigarettes and wine, so have given up cigarettes! I really enjoy a glass of wine, doesn't have to be a whole bottle, but that sun over the yard arm, marking the end of the working day etc. Late supper tonight, as stayed longer with DS, DIL & DGC than intended, so enjoying a glass whilst cooking.

Alea Mon 28-Mar-16 19:45:35

OK OK you may mock, smile but in Scotand the legal drink/driving is zero which means the designated driver has to be on soft drinks and it seems here at any rate that we don't or can't pack it away like our parents. Perhaps the health messages are filtering through.

Jalima Mon 28-Mar-16 19:49:07

as long as you don't swig down the antibiotics with the wine .....
Dr said it is OK as long as there is a couple of hours in between and that they do stop the antibiotics working so well - but as it was 'a special occasion do have a glass of wine'

My ambition is to live to ninety (+) and slide peacefully off my chair as I sit with a wine in my hand gazing at the sea.
I doubt it will happen but one can live in hope smile

merlotgran Mon 28-Mar-16 19:51:51

I haven't noticed any health messages filtering down to the younger generation hmm

ginny Mon 28-Mar-16 20:54:14

Don't drink alcohol and never have. Very annoying that I can't ever feel good for giving it up for some reason or some good cause. grin

Jane10 Mon 28-Mar-16 21:03:01

I've just kind of gone off alcohol. A glass of wine at weekends but sometimes I can't finish it. No special reason maybe my tasted have changed?

Grannyknot Mon 28-Mar-16 21:21:16

Bottles of wine and beer last forever in our house. My OH doesn't drink, and the rest of us including the SIL and DIL are occasional tipplers. I've had whisky, brandy and port in the cupboard for years!

Grannyknot Mon 28-Mar-16 21:23:46

Meant to add, there are so many brilliant non-alcoholic drinks on the market now, e.g. the Fentimans range etc that people like us are spoilt for choice.

greatgrandma Tue 29-Mar-16 10:03:52

I wonder why you don't want to live to 90. I will be 90 in a couple of months still enjoy a glass of good red wine and life is still good especially on this lovely sunny day. ??

Jalima Tue 29-Mar-16 10:11:31

Good for you greatgrandma!
Cheers wine
(although a bit early in the day for me grin and it's hailing and raining here)

annsixty Tue 29-Mar-16 10:19:47

Oh I have my reasons greatgrandma my own mother lived to 101 with all her marbles firmly in place until the last three weeks.
Lovely day here and I will resist alcohol until this evening when we start celebrating H's birthday with the "outlaws" who won't be here tomorrow.
How I hate fragmented families?

Jalima Tue 29-Mar-16 10:20:54

Where are all you people who have got sunshine ?

JackyB Tue 29-Mar-16 10:23:40

My mother has made it to 95 on G & T and is still going strong. Nowadays she doesn't drink when she's on her own, but when my sister and/or I are there, we always have a tipple.

Having said that, there does seem to be a drastic reduction in the consumption of alcohol generally. We tend to go for quality rather than quantity, as wines and spirits improve, shops stock better quality stuff and people are becoming more savvy about drinks. E.g. I will have a 3/4 finger of Bombay dry in my G & T rather than a couple of shots of Gordon's.

Same with meat - I prefer to do a good quality steak once a week rather than any old meat dish for the sake of meat every weekday.

janeainsworth Tue 29-Mar-16 10:29:55

Good for you greatgrandma - I hope to follow in your footsteps.
And ann happy birthday to your H.

I agree with Alea - many young people seem to not drink very much if at all, despite reports to the contrary. We are often the recipients of disapproving glances when we stay with the DCs and import our own beverages of choice.
Sadly IMHO many of the soft drinks that are offered as alternatives to wine and beer contain large amounts of sugar and possibly do as much damage to the liver as alcohol does.
Apart from a very small glass of orange juice for breakfast, besides alcohol I only drink tea, coffee and water.

Lupatria Tue 29-Mar-16 10:32:51

i still drink when i can but, having to pick my guy up from work 5 evenings out of 7, i can't risk drinking and driving. although i must admit that i have had a couple of glasses of wine and driven in the past - still would if i was out socially in the evening.

jalima - i've got sunshine - i live in dorset and the sun's been shining brightly all morning.

Katek Tue 29-Mar-16 10:35:01

There were 9 of us out for lunch on Sunday and only 2 had a glass of wine. Even those who weren't driving had soft drinks or water. Dds tend to drink wine at home at the weekend, but ds/dil don't drink at all now. I think the new drink/drive limit in Scotland has had definite impact on drinking when out.