barmyoldbat that was always one of my childhood favourites too. My mother used to make it with meaty bacon bones from the grocers when pennies were short; in better times, a bacon hock. I still make it now, though as you say, it isn't quite the same. The hocks you buy now don't have the same cure I don't think. In the last days of my older sister's life, when she couldn't eat much, I made some for her. She managed to eat just the tiniest amount - about a tablespoonful - but she said just the smell of it was comforting
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Terrible relationship with DIL - am I the problem?

