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Too poor to eat properly

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Nannyto3 Thu 10-Jan-19 14:28:50

The media seems awash with the fact that families living on Universal Credit or who are otherwise disadvantaged can't afford to eat properly, with children going hungry.
I feel so sorry for people in this situation. But I do wonder just how much 21st century expectations of what constitutes a proper meal (and how to cook it) are to blame.

Years ago we, our mothers and grandmothers cooked most things from scratch, using cheap cuts and whatever was in season to keep costs down.

Even now I make a chicken stretch to 4 different meals for the two of us. I make soup every day out of whatever vegetables I have to hand. Mince is cheap and so versatile and features heavily in our weekly meals. I use my slow cooker on a frequent basis to produce cheap, nutritious meals.

I long to be able to tell families who are struggling just how easy it can be to cook good, wholesome food at a reasonable cost.

Nonnie Sat 12-Jan-19 16:25:09

Charley I think that would apply whatever you were being taught to cook at school. Not sure my learning to make a Christmas cake was any use to me or anyone else. I can read so can follow a recipe but the basic ways of stretching a budget are rarely in recipe books or online as far as I can see. DH cooks but always needs a recipe whereas I can look at what needs using up and throw something together. Doesn't work with some cakes but no one needs cakes.

Perhaps nutrition could be taught as an academic subject rather than a practical one. It could include how to make cheap food without the students having to actually make it.
I also think from 16 they should be taught how to live outside the parental home as it would appear that many parents don't teach this either. Learn about budgeting, fuel use etc and generally about how much things cost. I don't remember actually teaching my children how to do all this it just evolved and by the age of 12 one of mine would go shopping for me and come back with things I hadn't asked for which were good value or had a yellow sticker. He would also decide that something was cheaper in a different shop to the one I had asked him to go to.

Charleygirl5 Sat 12-Jan-19 16:08:23

Readymeals lemonade and a slice of cake is not exactly a nourishing meal!

If eg shepherds pie had been taught- would you have had to take the ingredients to school because I am assuming that the parents of many children could not afford to do that.

ReadyMeals Sat 12-Jan-19 15:37:12

Even when I was at school 50 years ago, and had lessons actually called Cookery, we learnt to make lemonade, apple pies, souffle, cakes, biscuits. Never a shepherds pie, or braised skirt of beef or anything that would help us nourish a family cheaply. Or even how to cut and boil a cabbage! But I think they assumed we'd learn those basics at home, so the cookery lessons were trying to elevate our skills. By the time basic skills actually needed teaching in schools, the cooking had been phased out!

Jalima1108 Sat 12-Jan-19 15:03:58

There is 'pensioner poverty' though - particularly if older people still have to pay rent.

EllanVannin Sat 12-Jan-19 14:56:19

Exactly Jalima, we don't have the same expenses.

Jalima1108 Sat 12-Jan-19 14:45:49

Some pensioners get more now than when they were earning
Well, we don't but then again our outgoings are lower and we don't have children to clothe and feed. We don't have to travel to work, buy work clothes etc.

EllanVannin Sat 12-Jan-19 14:25:27

Some pensioners get more now than when they were earning ?

EllanVannin Sat 12-Jan-19 14:18:22

Why would a single pensioner be made to go to a food bank when their money is regular/guaranteed and they can also apply for various " top-ups and health benefit payments ?"

Eloethan Sat 12-Jan-19 13:48:46

My understanding is that some people are significantly worse off on UC. Given that they were probably having difficulty managing anyway because payments aren't that generous, in my view no amount of budgetary advice is going to solve the issue. It must be very hard to avoid the tempation of dipping into money that will be needed in the future when you have current unmet needs.

I agree that "food technology" hasn't really been very good in helping young people to cook cheap, nutritious meals. I recall my son coming home with a list of ingredients for pizza which ended up being quite expensive - and I don't consider pizza to be a particularly nutritious meal anyway.

MissAdventure Sat 12-Jan-19 11:54:40

I think most (?) people know that, as they know that having a gas/electric card is costing them more in the long run.
Its just almost impossible for some people to manage to get enough to do otherwise.
I have never had a pay as I go plan, because I realise i'll be charged more, but then I'm very thrifty, plus I have had times when I've had more income.

ReadyMeals Sat 12-Jan-19 11:52:06

Well I did use the politically correct term "invited" smile But yeah I suppose so.

Nonnie Sat 12-Jan-19 11:48:12

I don't think that will happen Ready. In an ideal world but can you imagine how many civil servants would be required? What the media would make of it? The Opposition would say it was an invasion of privacy etc.....................

Jalima1108 Sat 12-Jan-19 11:46:22

It does sound like a sensible idea.
Some ways of 'budgeting' are not in the least cost-effective - eg Christmas hamper savings schemes.

ReadyMeals Sat 12-Jan-19 11:38:00

Well I do think that when a person is going to be changed from income support to UC they should be invited to come in and discuss how they currently deal with their budgeting, and then have a discussion about how the change might affect their budgeting methods, and during the conversation make some assessment of whether they have at least understood the principles of keeping some money back for periodic expenses. Then have some instruction sessions - maybe group classes - to offer them if it seems it could be helpful.

Nonnie Sat 12-Jan-19 11:30:26

Not quite as simple as that Ready if you look at the bell curves for these sort of things you will find that very few are at the lower and higher ends, most of us are quite close to the average. Not enough difference to affect our ability. What I would like to know is what we can do to help those at the lower end.

Jalima1108 Sat 12-Jan-19 11:30:25

How did I fail miserably to teach DD with a Master's degree how to budget?
Where did I go wrong?
The others manage just fine.

ReadyMeals Sat 12-Jan-19 11:29:40

Presumably it's a sliding scale, how much instruction you need for how long, but there will be those who need it and they're not helped through those first months to find out if they're coping before it becomes obvious they don't know how.

ReadyMeals Sat 12-Jan-19 11:27:55

What you can find with Google, even these days, is that people with higher IQs can teach themselves skills when they need them (eg suddenly finding themselves on UC!) while the lower than average IQs (by definition 50% of us) need some instruction in the skill. Who is teaching the 50% of UC claimants who need that instruction - before they get into debt?

Nonnie Sat 12-Jan-19 11:27:53

I have a BPS qualification Ready which is why that surprised me. IQ tests only test one sort of intelligence so it seems unfair to judge someone's ability to perform clerical tasks based on that. It is quite possible your husband had other types of intelligence.

ReadyMeals Sat 12-Jan-19 11:19:27

Nonnie it was a long time ago. My first husband was always making mistakes in his office job and ended up as a minicab driver. We all took IQ tests one day and he scored just under the level that I had read was the minimum to work comfortably in his job, and I thought to myself ah that explains it! I bet it's completely politically incorrect to publish works saying that sort of thing now :D

Jalima1108 Sat 12-Jan-19 11:18:22

I'm not sure that budgeting money is IQ dependent ReadyMeals. Some people are 'good managers' and others are not although I agree that having help with learning how to budget would be a good thing.

People may, too, be coping with large amounts of debt and higher than normal interest rates.

Nonnie Sat 12-Jan-19 11:17:15

Thanks Jalima not sure it is possible to sum up but did want to get across that most of the posts have some validity and it is not necessary to 'take sides'.

FarNorth Other supermarkets also have buckets for food banks.

FarNorth Sat 12-Jan-19 11:09:45

I buy items at Lidl, cheaper than Tesco, then donate them in Tesco's food box.
Our generosity to food banks doesn't have to mean increased spending at Tesco.

hellymart Sat 12-Jan-19 11:08:41

I agree with all you've said. As you long to be able to pass on your knowledge, I wonder if there's any opportunity for you locally, to work with a voluntary organisation/charity, to show poorer families how to feed themselves? It would be such a worthwhile thing to do, I'm sure. Just a thought.

Jalima1108 Sat 12-Jan-19 11:07:08

A good summing up Nonnie - if it's possible to sum up such a complex problem.