@Resurgam123 & @LadyGracie will be at least 3 pm at son’s house & chaotic. He operates in a very different way to me, I end up doing veg & potato prep. Don’t mind that, but hard working in his kitchen, not enough room, didn't tell me how turkey crown was to be prepared (I usually get a boneless one piece you bung in oven from frozen) Not happy about staying overnight for 2 nights, but I don’t drive & he’s not up to the 20 odd miles back & forth due to his medical issues/disability. Love seeing my 2 Grandchildren, 11 & 15, but on Dad’s turf difficult as he’s controlling & expects everyone to have the Christmas he wants. I’m with kids in this, but little I can do in his home. Older DGS I’m very close to, but his mental health & eating disorder are very apparent. Not at all to do with his Dad & why their Mum isn’t here.??
This is one main reason I find this season so hard & other adults going on about everyone needing to have a great time. Not everyone can do this. I also have my Mam dying in a February way back as a teen, but her last Christmas was horrible, that finished me on it. Having said that, when son was a child, I did great acting so he’d enjoy it.
Ironically that’s what he’s trying to recreate, but he can’t ? Going to be a long time until sometime Boxing Day afternoon/evening, when I get back to my very small flat.
Glad some/many of you having a great time, I am envious?