It’s really interesting to see what different people would never go without making themselves and what people have, over the years, decided they can cut corners on to make the big day slightly easier.
I think most of us did everything ourselves years ago because there wasn’t so much ready made stuff available. I actually enjoy cooking but have friends who hate it and have gone over to frozen roast potatoes, ready mash, containers of gravy and bread sauce, packet stuffing etc.
I will miss my Mum again at Xmas bringing her ancient biscuit tins and tupperware full of delicious homemade mince pies and sausage rolls. They were wonderful! Dad used to bring a big box of his homegrown leeks, sprouts, fresh parsley, potatoes and parsnips. They had both had hard lives with not much money so I knew their home cooked and home grown gifts were very special.
My first Xmas as a new bride I tried to cook just how my Mum did. I spent ages making homemade gravy. boiling up the giblets with onion and carrot and bay leaves then putting it all through the metal sieve, pressing it through with a spoon. There it was this wonderful tasty gravy base in a big jug. Hurrying to get on with the rest of my cooking ….. without thinking I poured it down the sink! 😥