Primrose53, one year when we were living in Oman, we invited my in laws to come for Christmas - perfect weather at that time of year, lots of parents used to come.
Every year for around 40 years my poor old MiL had been cooking Christmas dinner for about 12 in her tiny kitchen. So naturally enough she jumped at the chance to get away. FiL, OTOH, grumped and grumbled and said they couldn’t possibly leave the house in December - what if the pipes froze, etc. They lived in Wimbledon - not the frozen north!
Good old Mil said, ‘Well, you can do what you like - I’m going!’
Of course they both came in the end, and thoroughly enjoyed themselves.